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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "looking for a deserving punishment" 1 2 looking for a deserving punishment (14) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Sun 2 Nov 08, 5:32 AM simpleedisturbed US(KS), 3 yrs I recently had my slave tell me that she had disobeyed me by contacting a 'master' behind my back without permission. The history of the forbiddence was this 'friend' of hers had decided to undermine my authority over my slave, say ill things about me to her and attempted to turn her away from me. He had issues with me but rather than confront me with them like I believe anyone should do, he tried to go through her. Well, that worked for a while until she found out things weren't going well with him and she wanted to know what was going on...being nosey. She contacted him and then told me about it. I have since calmed down, but as my normal punishment for misconduct is using the cane...something she despises, I do not feel that that would be sufficient in this case. Any suggestions of a harsher punishment? Master J 2 Nov 08, 6:32 AM sassybutt UK, 4 yrs Just to clarify to anyone, This is not MY Master J. sassybutt~Property of Master J Edited 3 Nov 08, 3:45 AM by sassybutt 2 Nov 08, 2:30 PM allalone47 US(OH), 6 yrs Yes she shood be punished for saying no, and she shood be reworded for telling you, and she shood be punished for not telling you right up front that this so called friend was trying to undermine you with her. Yes the canining shood be done for the punishment however let her deside were to place the marks of punishment for disobedeance. That is all but one stroke Edited 8 Nov 08, 5:01 PM by allalone47 2 Nov 08, 9:39 PM little_linnet US, 6 yrs How about you handle your slave yourself? Why is that not possible? Krista Now I'm going to marry my first wife, then I'm going to divorce her. Now, I know what you're going to say, but stick with me, my story gets better! I'm going to marry my second wife, then I'm going to kill her! Cut her head off! Ah, you weren't expecting that, were you? Third wife, going to shoot her! 2 Nov 08, 10:50 PM 961-082-548 US(NC), 3 yrs Sorry but only you would have all the information needed to decide what would be considered "harsh" or "extremely harsh". No one else here has that intimate knowledge of what she likes, hates and absolutely can't take. If you think about it a bit I'm sure you will be able to come up with something fitting. Toni "The road I walk and she crawls will be one of pain, pleasure and emotion but it will bridge our love for all eternity". -Master Skye 3 Nov 08, 2:41 AM 902-660-194 US(PA), 6 yrs wow, i agree with Krista. you have to learn how to handle your slave your way, or its like youre just roleplayin or somethin. i know Master would never ask someone else how to handle me, even if it took Him a long time to figure out the punishment Himself. you know your slave...others dont ~peace the sting of His whip~ the welts from His crop~ the warmth of His kiss~ the click of the lock~ assures me i am His most cherished possession.. ~touching my soul in all the wrong places~ 3 Nov 08, 3:22 AM Master_SL CA, 5 yrs simpleedisturbed wrote: looking for a deserving punishment I recently had my slave tell me that she had disobeyed me by contacting a 'master' behind my back without permission. The history of the forbiddence was this 'friend' of hers had decided to undermine my authority over my slave, say ill things about me to her and attempted to turn her away from me. He had issues with me but rather than confront me with them like I believe anyone should do, he tried to go through her. Well, that worked for a while until she found out things weren't going well with him and she wanted to know what was going on...being nosey. She contacted him and then told me about it. I have since calmed down, but as my normal punishment for misconduct is using the cane...something she despises, I do not feel that that would be sufficient in this case. Any suggestions of a harsher punishment? Master J If I may Master J (ok that rhymed, we are off to a good start)...It would sound as though you need to work on the foundation of your relationship rather than a bandaid punishment. In My humble opinion, punishments should happen very infrequently in a well balanced M/s relationship and should be used as correction not as foundational chracter adjustments...simply because it doesnt work in the long run. Guide with a loving firm hand. You may feel like you dont know what to do at this point but take the time to decide what is best. Take care, Master S Edited 3 Nov 08, 11:08 AM by Master_SL 5 Nov 08, 8:30 PM 208-125-014 UK, 4 yrs [//quote] ...It would sound as though you need to work on the foundation of your relationship rather than a bandaid punishment. [/quote] I can only concur with that assessment 100%. If what is happening is as you describe then it would appear you have a lot more issues to look at than what sort of punishment to hand out. Though I can say if it were me acting like that (which I never would as I'd never want to) then 'the door' would be my punishment - my butt would be kicked out of it instantaneously. Edited 5 Nov 08, 8:31 PM by 208-125-014 5 Nov 08, 11:14 PM Eclectic1 US(ID), 4 yrs It would seem to me that by using someone else's suggestion for punishment it would only further the undermining of YOUR authority and lend support to the other party's claims. As previously said you know her better then those of us here and decisions like that have to be fitting to your ways. Those are in fact the ones she chose to live by not to live vicariously by other master's rules through you. Have a good evening. 6 Nov 08, 1:24 AM Blush4Him US, 4 yrs Master_SL wrote: simpleedisturbed wrote: looking for a deserving punishment I recently had my slave tell me that she had disobeyed me by contacting a 'master' behind my back without permission. The history of the forbiddence was this 'friend' of hers had decided to undermine my authority over my slave, say ill things about me to her and attempted to turn her away from me. He had issues with me but rather than confront me with them like I believe anyone should do, he tried to go through her. Well, that worked for a while until she found out things weren't going well with him and she wanted to know what was going on...being nosey. She contacted him and then told me about it. I have since calmed down, but as my normal punishment for misconduct is using the cane...something she despises, I do not feel that that would be sufficient in this case. Any suggestions of a harsher punishment? Master J If I may Master J (ok that rhymed, we are off to a good start)...It would sound as though you need to work on the foundation of your relationship rather than a bandaid punishment. In My humble opinion, punishments should happen very infrequently in a well balanced M/s relationship and should be used as correction not as foundational chracter adjustments...simply because it doesnt work in the long run. Guide with a loving firm hand. You may feel like you dont know what to do at this point but take the time to decide what is best. Take care, Master S My votes (snicker - I want a recount!) are for what he said and Krista said. I think there's more that needs to be worked on rather than a punish and it's over. I have yet to give my consent to being slashed! 6 Nov 08, 11:13 AM Greebomc 5 yrs Why not contact the 'master' friend that she did and ask him what you should do? Everybody wins that way, you get to punish, he gets his say and she gets his indirect command. Aahhh, don't you just love teamwork. Best regards, G Nobody's perfect. Well, there was this one guy...but we killed him. Next page