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	TSR : Web boards : Website help : "New User's Guide" 1 2 New User's Guide (17) This post is on the Website help web board. 19 Oct 08, 8:03 AM 201-997-618 3 yrs 688-764-833 wrote: as far as I can tell, all anybody here asks is that you keep the fact that this IS a site for 24/7 live-in M/s and the people in those relationships in mind when posting. Hi Leesie thank you so much for your welcome and clarifying this 'is' a site for 'live-in' M/s - i completely understand a separate area for different kinds of relationships and i'm very grateful there's an online board available at all in the same place where such great information can be had from live-in situations i was mostly confused whether the questions i have myself should remain in the LDR board simply because that's the kind of relationship i'm in or whether it was ok to ask in the other areas as well you've done a great job explaining clearly and i would never presume to give advice to anyone with more experience and knowledge - especially if i've not had the same experience - i've been careful to only post 'i agree' type things or share how i personally deal with a difficulty if i can relate to a question asked - lol even then i'm wary and shy because of the quality of everyone else's comments thanks again for taking the time with this all round newbie - its really appreciated best wishes 20 Oct 08, 12:42 AM 688-764-833 US, 5 yrs 201-997-618 wrote: i was mostly confused whether the questions i have myself should remain in the LDR board simply because that's the kind of relationship i'm in or whether it was ok to ask in the other areas as well Ah; this seems to be my week for overdoing things and veering slightly left of center. Glad I could be of some help, though . Well, personally, I think it would depend on the question. If you're looking for advice on how to cope with something that is inherent only in an LDR the advice you get from people in a live-in relationship will most likely be completely irrelevant to your situation. If you have questions regarding any aspect pertaining to theories of M/s or IE, service, mindsets of s-types or D/O/Ms, reactance, etc. I see no reason not to post questions in the other areas if you want advice from the perspective of people who are mostly in 24/7 live-in M/s relationships. BTW: I hope I didn't come across as saying I thought you would give bad advice; I was listing some examples I remember from past threads that were particularly irrelevant to the situations posted. I am far from one of the most experienced people here (thank goodness) and I usually hesitate to give actual “advice” but I do feel comfortable asking questions so the OP may look at things from another perspective or offering my opinion (obviously ) and being careful to express that it is my opinion- not what should be everyone's “truth” (not saying you would do this either). Oh, and judging from the tone and content of your posts here I see no reason for you to be wary of posting. Cheers, Leesie 20 Oct 08, 12:48 PM 201-997-618 3 yrs 688-764-833 wrote: BTW: I hope I didn't come across as saying I thought you would give bad advice; I was listing some examples I remember from past threads that were particularly irrelevant to the situations posted. Thanks again Leesie you've confirmed my thoughts - i'm more comfortable about where to post what now and no you didnt come across in any way other than conversational as i hope i do as well cheers to you too 24 Dec 08, 4:11 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs i'm giving this a bump yet again because i've noticed a new wave of people who are using the pound sign to denote that they get paid for services... when it is apparent that is not the case. Folks, please... that little green symbol under your name that looks like a cursive L is the pound sign. In the U.S. W/we would use the $ for dollar. If you don't require money for services, and there is one by your name, you are giving out the wrong signals. Also if a post already has a ~R~ that means it has been reported to Admin. Thought this could use reiteration. New folks, please take a moment to click on the etiquette link provided on the first page... there are a lot of pointers not discussed here that are worthy of a read. Happy posting! p Best wishes for a celebration practiced within the most enjoyable traditions of the religious or secular practices of your choice, with respect for the religious or secular persuasions and/or traditions of others, or their choice not to practice religious or secular traditions at all. 8 Feb 09, 12:54 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs bump* Sigh. Reanimating threads that are a few years old is bad form. It takes attention away from current topics, and frequently the people you are responding to no longer even post here. If you see a good topic in the archives, you can start your own thread on the same topic. Certainly if the post is older than a year there are good chances there will be a lot of new insight. The archives are great for researching things. It is nice to find answers to your questions, but there are quite a few "Frankenstein" threads right now floating in active topics. p i breathe because He allows me, indulging Him indulges me. 8 Feb 09, 1:46 PM SixThreeFive SE, 5 yrs To be even more blunt than p was above: No necro-ing! That is, try not to necromance old threads. Give birth to new ones instead. Also, please find the Introduction-thread to post introductions in. Smile, it confuses people. 14 Feb 09, 9:56 PM Mistress_Tiaras_boy 5 yrs Bump Mistress Tiara's beloved boy.