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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "addressing in public " 1 2 3 4 addressing in public (36) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 9 Jun 10, 4:34 PM 380-214-735 DE, 4 yrs in public we use "Queen" and in private "Mistress", of course in german! 9 Jun 10, 5:06 PM curious_bina US(TN), 2 yrs This slave found it very strange with how embarrassed or bad someone would feel if they or their slave slipped a Master/Mistress. Even if it were in public and it's a strict rule, isn't it who you are? It just seems an overreaction to her, or maybe insecurities? This slave's not living with her Master yet, but he's told her she'll call him by his name in public. -s Always the curious one ~ s 9 Jun 10, 7:40 PM Sprite US(OH), 2 yrs this girl hasn't called out to her Master in public loudly...if she wishes to speak to Him she will be close to Him and still call Him Master but quietly with her head down, none of the 'nilla people seem to notice..but Master has told her to call Him by His given name in public but she just cant bring herself to call Him such. and of course she calls Him Master in the house He calls her girl or hun. -Master's pet Always- 1 Jul 10, 1:38 PM imdmb7 US(NY), 2 yrs Y! i dont usually allow my slaves to speak aloud in public, if they need to ask me somthing they are to whisper it in my ear and they must still call me master, except for the slaves who are to use names other then master, usually the name means master in a different language 13 Jun 11, 4:16 PM 122-760-889 UK, 5 yrs as far as our relationship is concerned - I have to call owner Master or Sir in public and thet is a permanent arangement. Often when I am serving Master in private he allows others to call me slave and I am to do all he says inclusive of pleasing other visitors(in any way) slave lisa 13 Jun 11, 4:20 PM 122-760-889 UK, 5 yrs I have got quite used to caling owner Master or Sir - even in front of people whomight come to dinner etc It is made quite obvious that I am a female slave - since he invites all others to use me as they see fit lisa 13 Jun 11, 4:36 PM slave_torianna US(GA), 15 mths i most always call Him Daddy in public and even around my parents and Daddy's family and His sisters. it's really funny to be in a store and call for Daddy and then people will see a guy that looks like He could be my brother answer or walk over to me (hee hee)...they are soooo confused and we just find that funny as hell, people dont know what to think Daddy calls me whatever he wants but normally not my slave name, torianna unless i have REALLY messed up. 99% of the time Daddy calls me bunny but also enjoys grabbing on my and calling me his whore in public. slave torianna He is my Rock, He is my Owner, He is my Savior, He is my Father 16 Jun 11, 12:01 AM MzSerenity US(GA), 11 mths It also depends on the comfort of titles/endearments in public. We get glances, smiles and/or laughs when we are out and it is overheard when he calls me Mistress or answers yes Ma'am. We smile at each other and carry on with what we were doing, to us it does not matter what the public thinks. For me I do not feel as if I cannot use the wording for what I call mine because it is not what "society" sees as normal. For us it is normal so screw them. Luckily enough, we do not have to hide our dynamic, our way of life from family or friends. Our life is accepted because they know if not then we have no room for them. We do not judge and expect not to be judged in return. Many times too both my boy and girl wear their cuffs in public. The teens think it is really awesome and some ask where they got them. Some of the older generation look and shake their heads, most likely with thoughts of what are the young'ns doing these days lol. The closest convenience store we go to do not even stare, they are use to seeing my boy wear his cuffs and chain collar. Well I take that back the female cashier stares at his sexy butt =) 16 Jun 11, 2:19 PM 634-446-622 US(IN), 20 mths Y! W/we are those crazy one who ware O/our collars and leashs every and W/we say Master and Mistress if anyone questions its an emo or gothic thing or W/we tell them in detail who W/we are and what W/we do. W/we A/all think the lifestyle should be more known and out there 19 Jun 11, 12:42 AM 390-533-482 UK, 2 yrs In private my Master is just that 'my Master'. In public he allows me to call him 'my love'. Next page