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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Punishments" 1 2 3 Punishments (22) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 29 Sep 08, 11:57 PM 996-150-083 4 yrs If it is my mouth that has offended then an open mouth gag is buckled on and my butt plug is removed from my ass and placed in my mouth, with a larger one then placed in my ass - the gag usually stays on for at least 2 hours. Spanked Slave 996-150-083 10 Oct 08, 5:37 AM Bella_Ragazza US(RI), 6 yrs pirate528x wrote: Nothing punishes a masochist quite like no punishment at all. A true slave despises the vanilla treatment. Master Tony speaking of vanilla treatment, that is def. one of the worst punishments I have ever gotten. I got my collar striped from me , couldn't call Master, Mas. , Sir or anything . He went one step further and refused to call me by my slave name , instead he called my by my given name. every time he called me by my given name i cringed like i had been hit in the face. it was not pleasant...not meant to be...and i learned my lesson, so i guess thats the point huh? lol Bella 10 Oct 08, 5:47 AM 635-898-970 US, 4 yrs I had my collar stripped from me once too. That's all it took for me to never do what I had done again! 11 Oct 08, 1:04 PM wayoflife UK, 10 yrs 466-331-493 wrote: I have found from my own experience that there is nothing worse than being ignored! As a slave, you probably seek your Master's attention on a regular basis, but if he lets you know that he doesn't plan on acknowledging you then you will think twice before repeating the offending action. Being ignored is absolutely the worst thing for me. I agree totally with your sentiment on this and the time spent like this is worse than any physical punishment. There is a degree of mental tormrnt that goes with being ignored that for someone who craves contact and interraction it can become quite intolerable. I do learn from it too but it is the most cruel of lessons. 12 Oct 08, 12:05 PM Rolling_Wildheart 6 yrs Long time no see everyone (and Hi to those who don't know Me. This is My first post in quite a while. I've been lurking but things got so contentious for a time some months back that I decided to lay back unless I felt I truly had something to add. I doubt if your situation could call for this, but I thought it might make some food for thought to some. Just yesterday I had an issue with My girl who felt she manipulated Me into getting her way about wanting Me to stay with her and play rather than going to a dinner meeting (which was not essential for Me to be there). In reality, I made the decision based on what I felt more prudent (and I'm glad I did as otherwise I wouldn't have been around for a subsequent event that required My presence), not based on her desire for Me to be around. At any rate, I punished her by...giving her exactly what she wanted. Why, you may ask? Because she was feeling so guilt-ridden thinking she caused Me to stay to play with her instead of going to My meeting. She was so resistant to what I was doing that she wasn't going to "allow" herself to feel good from it. So I proceeded to do exactly what I knew she wanted, all the time talking to her, demanding to let Me in (emotionally, not physically). She tried to remain willful, but I proved to her My will was stronger than her's. She ended up being forced to accept what I was going to do rather than turn herself off (and yes, she was trying). Now, would I do that every time? Hell no! It would get to the point she'd act out like that thinking she'd get what she wanted every time. But in My mind, I felt that the most appropriate punishment for the way her psyche was at the moment. Wildheart Your suffering will be legendary, even in Hell - Pinhead from Hellraiser II Edited 12 Oct 08, 12:07 PM by Rolling_Wildheart 13 Oct 08, 9:31 AM sassybutt UK, 4 yrs It was my mouth that usually got me into trouble, hence the name sassybutt(given to me years ago)and my Master always said the when I sassed him, my mouth was only good for one thing. Can't be sassy with your mouth full for hours on end and only a 10 min. break every two. sassybutt~under consideration Edited 13 Oct 08, 10:11 AM by sassybutt 13 Oct 08, 5:26 PM Morniel US, 4 yrs About half the stuff I see listed here is "erotic punishment"; that is to say, it has to do with bedroom play and with arousal and so forth. If you're actually looking for punishment as something to help with correcting errors, improving behaviour, or as a method of discipline, then don't mix erotic play punishment with that. If you do, then instead of eliminating the negative actions, you reinforce them, because the submissive gets turned on by the "punishment", and then acts up just to get more of what is actually positive attention. The following things work fairly well as methods of correction/discipline. (on subs/slaves, naughty kids, and puppies that need housebreaking) Time-Out -- This is just what it says it is; anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour, in a quiet place, to think over what happened, to calm down, and to understand why the action or behaviour was unacceptable. Lecture and/or Essay, with Time-Out -- A discussion of what went wrong, why, and how to avoid it in future, during the time out period. Grounding -- Take away a privelege such as computer time, books, shopping trips, or the like, for anywhere from a day to a week; this acts as a reminder that there are rules to follow, and reasons for them -- a grounding can make someone remember that yes, indeed, there are consequences to misbehaviour. Ignoring -- for a short, specified amount of time; say for instance until the person calms down enough to actually get their brains back in gear. However, anything longer than an hour or two generally results in the person believing, at some level, that they'll be abandoned and no longer loved "just because I goofed". It may work for some people; I wouldn't try it on a kid or teen, or on the family dog, however (but that's just me). I hope this helps, and gives you and your partner some ideas to work from. Morniel's Special Place 13 Oct 08, 5:57 PM sassybutt UK, 4 yrs Morniel wrote: About half the stuff I see listed here is "erotic punishment"; that is to say, it has to do with bedroom play and with arousal and so forth. If you're actually looking for punishment as something to help with correcting errors, improving behaviour, or as a method of discipline, then don't mix erotic play punishment with that. Well, you do see it your way, bu as I have a severe tmj problem, and this was for 24 hours or more, trust me, it was not erotic. (this was also 15 years ago) sassybutt~under consideration Edited 14 Oct 08, 11:06 AM by sassybutt 8 Nov 08, 6:04 PM allalone47 US(OH), 6 yrs One thing. What evr is for plesure shood not be punishment, but the oppeset can be used. 10 Nov 08, 4:07 AM Dreamshaper US(FL), 3 yrs I am not claustrophobic, but I do know ppl who are and understand the feeling, so locked in a closet would not be something I would do. But time out is is an excellent choice especially if you do adore spankings. My own idea is to have her stand in a corner, feet together, hands clasped behind her back, you would be surprised how effective this is for a slave. And the more severe the disobedience the longer the punishment. But then this is only a suggestion. Master Fred Alcohol is not the answer, it just makes you forget the question. Next page