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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "what do you call your Master?" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 what do you call your Master? (78) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Sun 7 Sep 08, 3:16 AM hebe_pupa US(NV), 3 yrs Please share here, if you will, the different names or "the name" you call your Dom/s in public (vanilla world) and within the scene? Recently, i have been having some issues with calling my Dom "Daddy" all the time...i feel that it does not capture O/our bond as well as some other name might...To me, "Daddy" suggests that eventually i will have to leave the nest and be out on my own and i know that that is not what Sir Cloud sees for U/us in the future (thankfully) as He has decided to get me an eternity collar. i enjoy the age play that the name "Daddy" encourages, but to be in that mind space all the time has become a cause for concern and my presenting to Him the possibility to have something else be the more permanent and "all the time" reference to Him...but it is finding that perfect one that feels right...i don't know what that would be and i think my Daddy is deliberately letting me squirm with it b/c He has ordered me to come up with a few options for Him to consider as a result of my bringing this subject to His attention (He is such a loving Dom). So, please share, if you can, also the process of discovering your Dom's name- whether it was you as the slave or submissive who presented it to your Master, or if it was chosen by your Master Himself. i feel this will help tremendously. Thank Y/you in advance. curtsy to Y/you all, puppy. "i love You soo much, Daddy." Edited Sun 7 Sep 08, 3:31 AM by hebe_pupa 7 Sep 08, 4:05 AM clarice US(MO), 3 yrs Hello again, puppy! i use the terms Master and Sir when refering to my Master. i sometimes say "my Owner" when refering to Him with others, as well. This is the list i've heard (all can have "my" added before when talking to others or being sweet with Him): Master Sir Owner Lord Your post suggested your Owner is male (i believe you said "Sir" as a prefix to His name?), but just in case, and to help any with Fem Dommes with the same question: Master Mistress Ma'am Sir Owner Lady Goddess Miss Domina (Heard that one on another site today. i like the sound of it) Hope this helped, dear, and good luck with title hunting! You could always go for something formal and long and drawn out, such as "Oh most wonderful and powerful Master whom i love and adore and will always obey". ^_^ Though, i think that would become a tad tiresome, no? Happy hunting. clarice. clarice. Posted with my Master's permission. At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. 7 Sep 08, 5:27 AM 613-411-535 3 yrs At the other end of the spectrum, we both simply use our nilla names, whether in nilla or M/s situations. The relationship is both open and very strong; we are friends, but she controls, I obey However, it does help some to use formality in addressing one another. It serves to remind and reinforce 7 Sep 08, 5:38 AM clarice US(MO), 3 yrs Oh! Forgive me. i didn't think to include our names. Yes, of course i call Him by His name at times. But i also call Him Master and Sir. He in turn calls me slave, clarice, and paige (my birth name). clarice. clarice. Posted with my Master's permission. At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. 7 Sep 08, 5:40 AM 662-935-655 5 yrs i call my late Master a saint - for putting up with me! And also because that word is in the title of the Church He was ordained in - but more the former reason than the latter. And i also call Him very patient. (GRIN) j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin 7 Sep 08, 6:01 AM clarice US(MO), 3 yrs Teehee you're silly. my Master must be a Saint as well, for putting up with my moodswings! Gods only know that no weaker Man than He could take me in hand... *shakes head* i'd be doomed if i hadn't found Him, i swear. Doomed to a life of the lonely submissive, because no Master would put up with me. i'm lucky He does. He's helping. Ah well. If this one comes up with anymore names, she'll be sure to post them, and such. clarice. clarice. Posted with my Master's permission. At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. 7 Sep 08, 7:41 AM hebe_pupa US(NV), 3 yrs Yes... my Masters day to day name is what i have been using in vanilla settings...and playing around with that has been fun...its when i get to call him baby, babe, love of my life, soul mate, honey, hun, my love, and so on... i am on a search for what to call Him as my Master and also to brain storm with ya'al on different names of endeerment to have in our slave vocab.... this is great....thanks for the feedback...i look forward to more -puppy "i love you soo much, Daddy" 7 Sep 08, 6:18 PM Elohims_jay UK, 7 yrs Usually His name "Himself" when talking to others about him. Sometimes Sir Occasionally "You Bastard !!" <ewg> 8 Sep 08, 1:46 AM 961-082-548 US(NC), 3 yrs Master prefers me to address Him as Master but if we are in "mixed" (family etc) company or outsiders are within hearing range then I address Him as Love or My Love. If we are having a Daddy/little girl period then He has me use Daddy. For some reason he really dislikes for me to use Sir when addressing him. That one was a hard one NOT to use since I'm from the south and we are kind of ingrained since birth to say Sir and Maam. Lol well it used to be that way down here anyway. Of course theres always my favorite one that I jokingly call him - wicked bastard. Wish I could address the processes part of your question but will have to think on that one a bit as my brain has stopped after a very long weekend. I will say that for me, Master is what He is in my mind. It was the term that resonated for me when I would think of him. When alone with my thoughts of him, that was the word that kept pushing through. It just "felt" right. I know that doesn't sound very helpful but maybe spending some quiet time alone just thinking of him and remembering special times will help prompt a term that resonates with you. And I have to add, the best thing about these " Daddys" is that you don't grow up and away from them, you just keep growing with them : ) Take care, Toni Edited to add last paragraph. "The road I walk and she crawls will be one of pain, pleasure and emotion but it will bridge our love for all eternity". -Master Skye Edited 8 Sep 08, 2:00 AM by 961-082-548 8 Sep 08, 2:06 AM VadFarkas US(AZ), 5 yrs Speaking from the receiving end. I don't like Master since it reminds me of a mean old man I served my apprentice under or the dufus Major Nelson, so she refers to me as Sir sometimes but mostly by my name. Vad Farkas Ringsmith 8 Sep 08, 2:50 AM Meritaten US(TN), 6 yrs i call my Master "Master" or "Sir" out of respect and love. On occasion i am allowed to call Him by His Name, but only in the presence of those who would not understand otherwise, i.e., kids/family. i love Him. Dearly. meriaton - slave of Akhenaton http://meriaton.byethost12.com/blog/blog4.php Sometimes a sense of humor is the only sense i have! Next page