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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "reward" 1 2 3 4 reward (35) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 24 Oct 08, 12:47 AM Master_Jon 3 yrs I reward my slave by petting her on the head and letting her rest her head on my lap. I'll sometimes give her kiwifruit, and other small things like that, things she loves but I don't let her have on a regular basis. I've had more girlfriends than I can remember, and one slave who I'll never forget. 24 Oct 08, 6:48 AM 996-150-083 4 yrs Mistress Tamara usually rewards me with 1) an increased level of trust - for example, allowing me to leave the house without first locking my leather chastity jock on; and 2) allowing me to cum. Spanked Slave 996-150-083 Edited 24 Oct 08, 6:49 AM by 996-150-083 24 Oct 08, 3:54 PM MyLordsClay US(FL), 3 yrs Many, many years ago I read something in a book (trashy romance novel believe it or not) - I altered it a bit and it has become part of my vows to My Lord. It goes "Since the beginning of time, it has been my place to love, honor and obey My Lord, to follow without question, to strive to please, to labor unceasingly for the comfort of My Lord and and His family, without expecting anything in return except the knowledge that i have done well." Verbal praise has been important for me in our relationship (i had trouble with self esteem - not good enough or worthy etc) and thanks to My Lord for realizing this and helping me to overcome(a sign of a good Master). Though i must admit that My Lord spoils this slave (presents, nights on the town, "play sessions", etc), Him telling me that i have pleased Him is the greatest reward that My Lord could bestow upon this slave. MyLordsclay All that i am and will be is by His generousity. i thank my Master for finding me and helping me find myself. i am His to mold as He sees fit. 2 Nov 08, 10:49 PM moncherie US(CA), 3 yrs Master rewards me in several ways when I earn it. One way is to allow me personal time which I use to read, crochette or use the computer WITHOUT handcuffs. Has any one been handcuffed while using the computer? Using the mouse is just very difficult. In fact it makes using the darn thing so slow I eventually give up which I truly believe is part of Master's plan anyway (lol). Other ways include an evening out, a backrub, SEX, going shopping with my sister..... 4 Nov 08, 1:19 AM x_flaire_x UK, 10 yrs We've tried the whole rewards for good behaviour. We've tried star charts that show how good I've been. However, neither really seemed to work for us after a period of time. Fun, in the beginning as they were. Simply, I became spoiled, or maybe Altheus became lax. Either way, we faltered and the D/s side of our relationship suffered. I don't get rewards now as such. Punishment, certainly, but not guaranteed, every week without fail rewards. But, a month or so ago I had to change a Doctor's appointment. Now, I should mention that I hate, and mean hate phoning anyone I don't know. I fear it, if I was being truthful. But, I had to phone to rearrange my flu jab. I asked Altheus to phone for me and he refused. He plonked the phone down in front of me, pressed the Doctor's phone number into my hand and basically assured me that I'd be punished if I didn't call. I did. Fretting the entire time. A few days later a package arrived for Altheus. I shook it a few times and had a good squeeze and placed it on his desk. Hey, I'm a curious so-and-so. Home he came and I mentioned, as casually as I could that there was a package for him. He duly ignored said package. Oh, how cruel they are! After dinner, he asked me to fetch the package and now near fever-pitch levels of curiosity, I hastily obeyed. He examined the package, slowly and carefully before handing it to me. 'It's for you,' he said. I started bouncing at this point. Gleefully, all sense of dignity and elegance had oddly fled from me, I tore open the package and found a book. A wonderful book, a book I'd been lusting after since I heard of its existence. Yes, dear friends, it was Anthea Turner's A Perfect Christmas. Joy. Unlimited. 'Open the front cover,' says my most wonderful and glorious and noble and brilliant Master. It was signed. Signed by Anthea herself. With love, it said. Bounce. Bounce. Bounce. He did it on a whim because he thought I'd been brave. I love him. And I've been a very, very, very good girl since. f x 5 Nov 08, 1:09 AM 996-150-083 4 yrs moncherie wrote: Master rewards me in several ways when I earn it. One way is to allow me personal time which I use to read, crochette or use the computer WITHOUT handcuffs. Has any one been handcuffed while using the computer? Using the mouse is just very difficult. In fact it makes using the darn thing so slow I eventually give up which I truly believe is part of Master's plan anyway (lol). Other ways include an evening out, a backrub, SEX, going shopping with my sister..... Usually I have to use the PC while my wrists are cuffed to a short chain that passes through a "D" ring at the front of my bondage belt - this isn't so bad; however sometimes when I have been very disobedient Mistress Tamara has cuffed my wrists to the ends of a 3 foot spreader bar, which makes using the computer near impossible! Spanked Slave 996-150-083 Edited 5 Nov 08, 1:10 AM by 996-150-083 6 Nov 08, 8:06 PM 650-087-830 UK, 3 yrs Master tells me that i'm a good girl after i've done something well. That always gives me a warm happy feeling. Knowing that i've pleased Him is such a reward, i love hearing it. If i've done something that is significant to us or something that i find hard, such as doing something for my Master despite any fears that i have, He takes me in His arms, looks into my eyes and tells me that He is so proud of me. That gives me the best feeling in the world. I can honestly say that there is no gift on earth that could match His smile and those words when He is that pleased with me. Oh my that sounds so gushy and romantic!! 650-087-830 6 Nov 08, 9:10 PM 662-935-655 5 yrs 234-086-891 wrote: reward As I read through a lot of the posts I see that most are about punishment. While I agree that this a main part of O/our lives. What about the rewards for good behavior ect? I'm just wondering if any of you other masters have a reward system like my master does? it does not have to be extravagant. most the of the time mine is a praising email or a tender caress on the face. Do any of you have something similar? Praise goes a long way with most slaves/subs-as does chocalate (GRIN) esp. with f-subs i think, don't know enough about male subs here, but i'd bet that we're not all that different. Pleasuring the slave - orgasms- certainly would go along way with most. since Master is no longer available to reward me, i am going to reward myself today - 11/6/08 - by watching the new Lady Heather episode on CSI (Cbs t.v. in USA) as it was the first Lady Heather episode that helped me understand what this lifestyle was about and got me out of the closet. But surely letting the slave watch favorite movies/t.v. or to read books, etc. would qualify, wouldn't it? (music too, humor, whatever entertainment said slave finds entertaining) trust-worthiness can be rewarded with trust - maybe letting the slave go out with friends without You or whatever. THIS IS A REALLY GREAT TOPIC! Thank You for bringint it up! j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin 6 Nov 08, 9:12 PM 662-935-655 5 yrs MyLordsClay wrote: Many, many years ago I read something in a book (trashy romance novel believe it or not) - I altered it a bit and it has become part of my vows to My Lord. It goes "Since the beginning of time, it has been my place to love, honor and obey My Lord, to follow without question, to strive to please, to labor unceasingly for the comfort of My Lord and and His family, without expecting anything in return except the knowledge that i have done well." Verbal praise has been important for me in our relationship (i had trouble with self esteem - not good enough or worthy etc) and thanks to My Lord for realizing this and helping me to overcome(a sign of a good Master). Though i must admit that My Lord spoils this slave (presents, nights on the town, "play sessions", etc), Him telling me that i have pleased Him is the greatest reward that My Lord could bestow upon this slave. MyLordsclay B E A U T I F U L - can you hear me applauding? j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin 27 Nov 08, 9:28 PM 682-645-503 UK, 3 yrs £ girl gets lots of "good girl"s when she has done something particularly well, or when she has done something that Master didnt know if she would be able to do and has done. if she has behaved particularly well, she gets some good time with her "rabbit"...and Masters skill with it.. if shes only behaved well, then she just gets given the rabbit..and told to have fun.. (the fun is then for Master, since He can hear this girls frustration as she gets close and just cant get any further). Oh, she also gets "snuggle time" something that she finds really really rewarding, when she has been good or if He thinks that she could do with a treat. 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