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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "2 MASTERS" 2 MASTERS (6) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Sun 31 Aug 08, 6:25 PM 643-993-605 US(AL), 3 yrs can a slave have to MASTERS? 1 Sep 08, 1:03 AM kashta 4 yrs 643-993-605 wrote: 2 MASTERS can a slave have to MASTERS? Some people manage to work out an arrangement such as this quite well... others, not so good. As with all other possible variations, I'd say it depends on the specific 3 people involved. I've not ever tried to serve two different Masters at the same time... can't imagine myself in that position. But still... why would this not be possible? Open and honest communication is the key, as always. And as long is this remains mutually beneficial to all three of you, then enjoy the relationships you have formed. So, some general advice -- as the (shared) slave in this, I would be very careful to make sure that both Masters work out between them who makes the final decisions and in which areas. And I hope they also discuss how they intend to resolve unexpected complications that might arise. If one or the other isn't very good at doing this, you could find yourself caught in the middle of a power struggle between them. Keep no secrets from either Master... not ever. And share no confidences with one Master that you keep quiet about with the other. Any time you believe the possibility of conflict or the instructions you begin to receive from them contradict anything the three of you have already agreed with.. be sure to ask them both to help you. You need very clear direction at all times in order to serve them both. How well this will go truly depends on the decisions they make, the level of cooperation they can maintain, and their leadership/management abilities. ________________ "If Passion drives, let Reason hold the reins." Edited 1 Sep 08, 1:05 AM by kashta 1 Sep 08, 2:49 PM slavegail UK, 6 yrs Y! written with permission of NG1. this slave has two Owners but one is Master and one is Mistress they are not married and Mistress is lesbian it seems to work for us Mistress is in charge of slave regards the household master regards slave inthe grounds. slave does not know how they decide who sexually uses slave.but slave can be used by either when ever they like where ever they like apart from the lounge sometimes its seperatly one straight after the other and sometimes togeather.play time in the basement is always both of them pony play in the garden can be either anytime there is good weather.go with what ever works for you slavegail Property of NG1 25 Oct 08, 3:25 AM 411-076-035 US(CA), 6 yrs I have had to think about this question long and hard on several occasions, even with different circumstances. The following are my own perceptions, and are applicable only to me. During the first few months of my introduction to the BDSM lifestyle, I had the idea that just as I was actively polyamorous, I also felt that one could have more than one Master as long as there was open and honest communication between all individuals. With having success in poly, this seemed very logical to me. Back then, I thought that the Collar would only apply to when we were together and have no bearing on my other relationships. Even though I was only a submissive at that time, I had to really think hard about what the Collar meant to me then. The question arose because I had been talking to another man with a possibility of starting a new relationship. At that time, there was a request that I bring all potential partners to my Master for His approval. We all met and had a nice evening at a club. Because he was a Dom, it started to bring up questions. After a second date, I came to realize that I simply could not fathom the idea of having two Masters. Not only that, but even in a scene, the difference between my Master and this other guy was profound. The connection I had with my Master completely enhanced what we were doing. It seems for me, that I need that absolute trust in the other person to be able to fully enjoy the experience. I am not a pain slut for the sake of being a pain slut. I do not get anywhere near the same benefit from a play session with a friend or other person as I do with my Master. In truth, I cannot place a finger on exactly what is different that causes such a profound difference, I only know that it is there. I do suspect that the absolute trust is part of it. It was after this that I truly realized that I could have only one Master at a time (little did I know how profound and deep it actually went). What I realized then was that the Collar was a 24/7 commitment, and not just a situational mental shift. More recently, actually about a year and 2 months ago, life circumstances got to the point that my Master and I could no longer see one another with any regularity. He made the decision to release me so I could find another Master. This decision was not wanted by either of us. I know it affected my Master deeply, and I could not even process it for nearly 5 months. It took two friends of mine, a session of Reiki, and an intense session to get me to the point I could grieve over the loss. (by intense, I mean emotionally). It was at that point I was able to come to terms with it, to some extent. It was after this point I really had to come to terms with how I felt about having a Master. As much as I wanted a Master, I could not bring myself to find another. I could not see myself with anyone else, nor could I see myself calling someone else Master. I did have a few play sessions, but they just were not the same. Don't get me wrong, they were "fun", but they still left me wanting for what was missing. For a while, I did entertain the idea of looking for a new Master, but could not find anyone that could take His place. I eventually resigned myself to the idea that I would, for the most part, close the doors on being in the lifestyle. This saddened me, but I could not see myself going through the process of learning to trust another person as much as I do my Master. I could not see myself submitting everything I am to anyone else. Through this 1 year absence, I learned that for me, I can only have one Master, that there never will be another, that there never can be another. At this time, I realized just how deep that commitment had gone, just how much He did own me, and how much He meant to me. Just earlier this month, those life circumstances keeping us apart changed and He offered me His Collar again, this time as His slave. Edited 25 Oct 08, 3:27 AM by 411-076-035 25 Oct 08, 5:29 AM xaria_DF US, 7 yrs The commitment it takes to be a slave is something that i think alot of girls take far to lightly, and at times see as only a small facit of who they are. for me it is a large part of who i am, He owns me and i willingly let Him choose what is best for us. Our relationship is a poly relationship so there is an openness you can't find in most relationships as my sister said so elequently, there is no one i would trust more than my Master, but i could never have another because it would be wrong for me. Can one have two Masters? i would have to say, No, because if you have a Master who is a true Master he will capture every part of you not just your physical body but also you heart and your very soul and you will not want it back and sharing is not an option at that point. my Master is a wonderful man, and i know that He loves me as He loves my sisters, i am secure in that knowledge, however, i also know because of the circumstances that i am not able to be everything He needs me to be, that is my failing, to my deep regret. While my situation is a difficult one, i know that without a doubt that there will come a time it will not be difficult and then i can be Everything that my Master needs me to be. Edited 25 Oct 08, 5:32 AM by xaria_DF 14 Jun 09, 1:54 AM 000-638-705 US, 6 yrs this slave has a Master and a Sir the only thing with it is sometimes its hard to figure out the Sir and he sometimes seems to be more dominate then the Master at times but I love them both. Master however is not like most Master he wants me to figure everything out and he is like my teacher as well. the two of them have been partners for 3 years. he has also owned slaves before for long periods of time. 14 Jun 09, 11:36 AM Sklavos_mou_Kyriah 3 yrs Lady Mistress owns me but lives a couple of hundred miles away so that is an LDR. However, part of the arrangement is I serve as slave to to my wife as required and decreed by Lady Mistress. So I get the best of both worlds as it were, I'm in an LDR but get a feel for 24/7 into the bargain. Its worked so far. To be a true slave is to be truly free Slave/Sklavos