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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Sharing a slave." 1 2 3 4 5 6 Sharing a slave. (55) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Thu 21 Aug 08, 12:02 AM 000-890-691 US, 8 yrs My master is in discussions with a man, whom he is close with and trusts, concerning lending me out. This man lives in a nearby state and i would stay with him for four days. i have been shared before, in the presence of my master. Since this circumstance is less controlled, he is, of course, devising rules that i must abide by while i am away. He had settled on a few, but i wondered if anyone here may have some experience with this and can provide insight into what type of rules should be set in place. He and i may not think of everything, especially since this is a new experience for us, and i would like to have as many bases covered as possible so that i can serve at my best and be as pleasing as possible. Any feedback concerning rule ideas for this situation would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time! 21 Aug 08, 3:31 AM masterfiremaam US(WV), 5 yrs Has your Master actually met this person? One would assume he's lending you to a good friend that can be trusted to give back the 'corvette' in at least as good a condition as it was received. Master Fire ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Oh Hai! Blessinz of teh Ceiling Cat be apwn yu, srsly. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 21 Aug 08, 6:41 AM ravenkaldera US(MA), 6 yrs I think that what he ought to be doing is to be devising rules not for you, but for this other guy ... and making certain that the other guy will absolutely hold to every one of those rules even when he's not there to enforce them. Can he guarantee this? You, on the other hand, should have only one main rule: If this other guy breaks any of your owner's rules, you walk the hell out of there and get away by whatever means necessary. -Raven Kaldera -If you're in charge, it's all on your head. If it's not all on your head, then you're not really in charge. 21 Aug 08, 6:51 AM JSubathrt US(CA), 3 yrs Y! I am so glad that Raven said that. Just remember your first rule.."protect the property" Judy 21 Aug 08, 9:08 AM 000-890-691 US, 8 yrs ravenkaldera wrote: I think that what he ought to be doing is to be devising rules not for you, but for this other guy ... and making certain that the other guy will absolutely hold to every one of those rules even when he's not there to enforce them. Can he guarantee this? You, on the other hand, should have only one main rule: If this other guy breaks any of your owner's rules, you walk the hell out of there and get away by whatever means necessary. -Raven Kaldera While, of course, there are no guarantees in life, we both could not trust this man more than we do. We are confident that he will be responsible, safe and respectful of whatever rules are laid down. We just want to make sure that we don't forget any area that should have rules and thus why i asked for feedback. Thank you! 21 Aug 08, 9:06 PM MrRolod US(OH), 3 yrs I have loaned my slave in the past, never overnight, and never far away. As I'm sure everyone agrees, I'd never lend her to anyone I didn't trust and has a healthy fear of my wrath. Lol. The rules for each instance were different due to the purpose of her visit. It was always a part of her training or a test to help her overcome some obstacle. It was never simply, "here she is. Do what you want with her." The primary rules are always about safety; call to check in frequently - use special duress words to secretly convey your emotions to your Master without anyone listening being aware, safe sex practices, etc. Everything else is preference. I wouldn't jump to several days at once if you've never been used outside your Master's presence. The risk of emotional strain could be too much. I'd try a few hours, then an overnight, then go from there. But ultimately its all about what you both want. My favorite rule when loaning my slave: have fun! Be crazy. Let yourself enjoy the expeerience. Then tell me every detail when you get home. Mr. Rolod 22 Aug 08, 2:26 AM 000-890-691 US, 8 yrs MrRolod wrote: The primary rules are always about safety; call to check in frequently - use special duress words to secretly convey your emotions to your Master without anyone listening being aware, This is an excellent, excellent rule! Thank you! Definitely helpful and insightful. i really appreciate you addressing the question specifically. 26 Aug 08, 1:28 PM MrRolod US(OH), 3 yrs Anyone who wants insight or details on proper duress word or phrase usage may contact me directly. Its a security procedure used in military and high security functions that is simple and easily learned/used. There may be info on the web as well. 26 Aug 08, 8:22 PM slavegail UK, 6 yrs Y! written with permission of NG1. this slave lives with her two Owners. so is shared by them this slaves is also lent often to both male and female for domestic work parties and decorating. she is very rarely lent out for sexual duties. the odd time that she is it is always to someone within the close confines of owners small group of people. both male and female.. Owners rules at this time are. use her, enjoy her, send her back as you got her. no other person may punish slave.Only Owners can do this. slavegail Owned by NG1 slavegail Property of NG1 5 Sep 08, 2:27 AM 942-784-782 3 yrs I am shared between two households. The two dominants are in communication with each other either directly or through me. I would say that they have agreements in principal regarding me and my care, but each household has its own rules and works differently. I guess it's like being a child of divorced parents who are co-parenting (which I was). It works perfectly well for me. 5 Sep 08, 5:20 AM Tragopan US(CA), 4 yrs I second Raven's remarks, and support the secret duress words idea. It would be a good idea for both you and your Master to review Meriaton's post on page 5 of the "Locked in a closet" thread to be reminded about how bad something like this can go in a single afternoon. That you will be gone for days in another state means you both need to be very sure of the other person and what you are doing. That said, I hope all of our cautions are needless, and you both have a wonderful time! Let us know how it works out. --Tragopan "From darkness, light." Next page