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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Punishment Ideas Required (help please!!!)" 1 2 Punishment Ideas Required (help please!!!) (17) This post is on the Other Topics web board. 24 Aug 08, 6:27 PM 650-087-830 UK, 3 yrs Just read your thread, and wondered if your Mistress knew that you have asked for people to supply you with punishment ideas? I know for certain that my Master would be highly disappointed in me if i had not put the effort into such a task myself. For U/us though punishment is a private affair, as i would never want anyone to know that i had truely disappointed my Master and i am sure that it would not be on His list of things to boast about! But that aside, what really made me wonder, was the line about it involving public punishments as you would prefer it. Does that mean that you would enjoy it? To me a punishment (not play) is something that should not be enjoyed. I hate to be punished, as just the head space i get into, through my Master talking calmly to me, about how i have disappointed Him and what i have done is upsetting enough for me, let alone any physical punishment on top of that. If i enjoyed the punishments then there would be no deterent to act/behave that way again. Wilful disregard for my Master would just lead to a total breakdown of the relationship, so it has to be something you don't like. Maybe your list of 15 things should be just that, a list of your least favourative activities/punishments? 650-087-830 owned by Master Turbo 24 Aug 08, 8:24 PM Dreamshaper US(FL), 3 yrs 595-898-539 wrote: i am sorry for any misunderstanding. Sorry if i have offended you either. But there is nothing wrong with asking for ideas IMHO, its called brainstorming. You know, the sum-of-the-parts-is-greater-than-the-whole kind of thinking. Its the basic idea behind a social networking site in the first place. Ms Valentine and anjuli, you are both right; taking off my collar was one of the dumbest things i could have possibly done. i am sorry for my disobedience and want to find a way to 'bury the hatchet' as soon as possible. If Zen training has taught me anything, its that the past can never be undone, and the future is always out of reach. Thus, seek to make the most of the present moment; the here and now. As much as i want to, i can not undo what i have done. i'm sure we all have something we regret doing in our lives. After all, everyone of us- tops, bottoms, submissives, dominants, et cetera-are just human... anjuli wrote: Damn right. I'd take them off you and make you earn them back! And you would not get that collar again until you'd proved undisputably that you valued it appropriately. anjuli anjuli, i am trying to earn my collar back. Hence the list of punishments... All i want are open-minded ideas for punishment. Being disciplined is, in O/our experience, the best way to increase my obedience. Is it any surprise then, that my Mistress would ask me to make a list of punishments? Of course not! It is my utmost objective to repay my debt to Mistress, and through disciplinary action, my error can be overcome. i am sorry if my response upsets both of you. i am by no means looking to start an online argument over silly things. seriously. i feel that i was misunderstood.if anyone does happen to have an idea they're willing to share, im still all ears. thanks! Alcohol is not the answer, it just makes you forget the question. 25 Aug 08, 12:24 AM iinarihoudai US, 5 yrs 595-898-539 wrote: Mistress forbids me to give a detailed account, This right here leads me to believe that the OPs Mistress is allowing her slave to get ideas here. She is probably allowing this because she knows that this is a hard request for her slave because to him, it really is difficult to come up with punishments that are different than what has already been done. Punishments can include, stuffing you in a locked windowless room while she's away, and if she's really nice she'll give you a bucket to pee in. Not allowing you to be sexually active at all for the next month, and maybe even letting watch her pleasure herself, but knowing that if you hadn't been disobedient you could be doing that for her. Chores, lots of them, even pointless ones like Cinderella got. ". . . and the draperies," "But I already" "DO THEM AGAIN." Taking away anything that you really enjoy doing that she lets you do. Or all of them. Or heck, she had dole out all of the above and you'd probably deserve it. You might want to read up on torture techniques of prisoners and see if anything jumps out at you as a possibility. Feel blessed that she hasn't disowned you. If I were to do what you did I am fairly certain that Master would have me packing. PS: I'm a masochist so I am never physically punished. iinarihoudai "Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." -Jesus Christ, Hebrews 11:1 www.livejournal.com/users/dannasamanoiiko Edited 25 Aug 08, 12:28 AM by iinarihoudai 26 Aug 08, 8:38 PM slavegail UK, 6 yrs Y! written with permission of NG1. this salve does not know the reason you left the house without permission. but if this slave did it she would be sore for a week in places she did not know she had. and Owners would not ask anyone what to do with her..but then we are all diffrent. slavegail Owned property slavegail Property of NG1 26 Aug 08, 9:06 PM Mistressofmypretty UK, 5 yrs Y! pirate528x wrote: Ms_Valentine wrote: I am going to say what I am sure others will say. Most Masters and Mistresses on a site dedicated to 24/7 Ds or M/s relationships do not ask others what punishment is suitable for their sub/slave. They know what to do with them. If you had been asked to think up punishments, you should do it yourself and not ask others to try to relieve the burden of work placed on you. You will get very little sympathy on this site if you go around removing your collar and chastity belt at will. For most on here, the collar is a most precious and symbolic important item and one which is never removed unless with Master/Mistress permission or approval. Those are my thoughts also.I never ask for suggestions on how to handle any slave in service to me. Master Tony Just a point of note really. I'm of the M variety too. With my reasonably short experience, I have asked for help, publically and privately - and will continue to do so for as long as I feel the need (which may be forever). I would be wrong not to ask for that help, when the results of my actions affect another individual so deeply. I think what is important, is the way that advice is asked for. A clear context always helps. ~Ding Dong the witch is dead!......Is she?~ 26 Aug 08, 9:34 PM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs I'm currently reading the first volume of John Norman's series on Gor. I don't get punished often, but this is punishment rather than discipline for me. I don't intend this as an insult to any person who feels otherwise, but I don't care for Norman or his thinking and 3 - 5 pages of it will have me wanting to pull my bangs out. On Wednesdays, I am required to carry the book (in plain view of all and anyone) and read it during lunch. C will occasionally give me surprise quizzes as to what I've learned. It is not a thing I'll forget anytime soon. Good luck to you. Camille 26 Aug 08, 9:37 PM little_linnet US, 6 yrs That is freakin AWESOME. 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