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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "HELP!! I was bad!!!" 1 2 3 4 5 HELP!! I was bad!!! (48) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Mon 18 Aug 08, 1:41 AM 994-437-094 US(PA), 3 yrs I am posting this with my Master's permission. I have come here to seek advice on a pending punishment that I have coming my way. Long story short I most definitely overstepped my boundaries as my Master's slave! I not only defied rules that He had set in place but disrespected Him in various ways. I verbally abused Him and as an immediate consequence, I almost lost my Master, my lover, and my best friend. Along with his forgiveness, He has asked me to post this in hopes of gathering a wide opinion on the punishment that His slave deserves. Do not hold back and please be specific. I need put back in my proper place! 18 Aug 08, 2:05 AM EilisMoonfire US(WA), 4 yrs See, that's a hard request to put to the masses as we don't know you as intametly as your Master. One person's punishment is another's reward and vice versa. Possibly a marathon flogging? Maybe something like required to live in a closet or a cage for a predetermined amount of time (your Master would be obligated to feed and water you, but not necessarily empty your potty bucket if you were as bad as you said) If you sleep together in the same bed at night maybe you should be required to sleep on the floor next to the bed tethered to it with as much padding or blanket as your Master chooses (Like none if you have a good bone structure or a decent amount if you have say a bad back. Punishment for being out of line is one thing, damaging your slave is another.) If you have to leave the home maybe some vibrating underpants w/ a remote He can control. I know orgasming in the grocery line would be incredibly embarrassing for me..tho not so much for some people. Again, some punishments are another's reward. I hope this helped you any. One day soon Master will come home and this slave will be whole again. 18 Aug 08, 11:33 AM masterfiremaam US(WV), 5 yrs Broccoli. Have him make you eat cooked broccoli. Or brussels sprouts. Whatever it was that you did almost lost you the relationship. I think a LOT more and different things need to happen other than punishment. Couples therapy might be in order...no punishment will ever replace his trust in you. Master Fire ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Oh Hai! Blessinz of teh Ceiling Cat be apwn yu, srsly. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 18 Aug 08, 12:27 PM 544-282-976 US(NJ), 5 yrs the only thing that will put you back in your proper place is placing yourself there. no amount of punishment will work if you're just not willing to be in that place. Master Mike's precious 18 Aug 08, 12:58 PM Sgiandubhs_ceilidh US, 5 yrs Y! Starting over at the beginning and earning your way back up to your proper place. Not only will you retrain, but trust can be built back up this way. i agree about the counceling part as well. W/we may not be vanilla, but W/we are human. (been there, done that). Love without rules. ceilidh 18 Aug 08, 1:44 PM binapup US, 7 yrs Punishments (for this and future transgressions) need to be set in place by your Master. He alone knows you best (what will have/have no effect). What one slave would consider punishment another would find enjoyable and a treat. your Master needs to set up specific punishments for specific misbehaviors (such as caging, sleeping on the floor, etc.) The fact you feel guilt at having disobyed Him is a good first step; now follow that up by asking Him what punishment would absolve you of what you've done. 18 Aug 08, 6:11 PM Master_Rowdy US(PA), 3 yrs binapup wrote: The fact you feel guilt at having disobyed Him is a good first step; now follow that up by asking Him what punishment would absolve you of what you've done. Thank you this is what I was looking for someone else to get through to her! I am one who will punish if need be but I think that she has punished herself more than I ever could!! 18 Aug 08, 9:09 PM little_linnet US, 6 yrs Oh for God's sake. What is it with these so-called "dominants" who don't even have the insight to decide on what punishment would be appropriate for their own "property". Listen, son. If you don't know your submissive well enough to decide on a punishment that will serve your purpose, then you're not a dominant or an owner, you're a bull in a china shop. And if you need a group of complete strangers to do your work for you, then you're not a dominant or an owner, you're a helpless child. Krista I may be a blowzy, slovenly slattern, but how can you be drab when you've used a bedazzler to make rainbows all over your blue jeans? (For the record, this makes them more gay, but possibly less feminist.) Edited 18 Aug 08, 9:10 PM by little_linnet 18 Aug 08, 10:40 PM Master_Rowdy US(PA), 3 yrs little_linnet wrote: Oh for God's sake. What is it with these so-called "dominants" who don't even have the insight to decide on what punishment would be appropriate for their own "property". Listen, son. If you don't know your submissive well enough to decide on a punishment that will serve your purpose, then you're not a dominant or an owner, you're a bull in a china shop. And if you need a group of complete strangers to do your work for you, then you're not a dominant or an owner, you're a helpless child. Krista See this was all part of her punishment! Which was admitting that she was wrong and disobeyed me. So I wanted her to come on here and admit that she was wrong to the world. Don't you worry I have had her punishment planned since the day it had happened. Also I was just seeing what others had to say about her behavior and what they would have done in this situation. I am fairly new to this and was just trying to get information from other M/s. I was not trying to have my Slave put down by others nor was I trying to be called names! I thought this site was to share information and different ideas. Maybe I was wrong! 18 Aug 08, 10:42 PM little_linnet US, 6 yrs Master_Rowdy wrote: So I wanted her to come on here and admit that she was wrong to the world. What on earth does the rest of the world have to do with your relationship? She does not belong to the world. She belongs to you. What you need to do is create your own world for her. The opinions of outsiders don't matter. Your opinion, if you can successfully own her, does. Krista I may be a blowzy, slovenly slattern, but how can you be drab when you've used a bedazzler to make rainbows all over your blue jeans? (For the record, this makes them more gay, but possibly less feminist.) Edited 18 Aug 08, 10:43 PM by little_linnet 18 Aug 08, 10:48 PM Master_Rowdy US(PA), 3 yrs I am not worried about the opinions of outsiders. No offense you must not have read very well I am worried about ideas and information from the more experienced. Sorry I lack experience in this lifestyle and I would like the respect from people that are on here and no to be put down but to be assisted when I need help. So people like yourself should be honored when a young M/s couple comes and asks for help. Next page