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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Ritual/Protocol suggestions" Ritual/Protocol suggestions (3) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Thu 8 May 08, 6:45 PM 890-876-591 UK, 4 yrs Hey Being a newbie again... Can anyone suggest any rituals or protocols that might be helpful to me? i'm still new to this, and still learning to adjust my thought processes. i thought maybe having some rituals/protocols in place might help while i'm still in this initial phase. Sir and i have talked about this, and He suggested i ask on here while we think about it too Thanks little biscuit You gave me a life, now show me how to live Edited Thu 8 May 08, 6:46 PM by 890-876-591 8 May 08, 7:07 PM Eclectic1 US(ID), 4 yrs Thought fictitious, you might try the Gor slave site. It has some interesting things that might give you some insight. I'm sure you will get more ideas from others here. 8 May 08, 7:16 PM SirLawrence US(ME), 5 yrs Welcome little biscuit, I do enjoy ritual. Here are some of our favorities: My submissive is required to thank me ("thank you sir or thank you master are both acceptable) each time she is used or punished. When she is punished I require her to go to the bedroom, strip off her clothes, place the riding crop or strap on the bed or on her back and wait with her bottom in the air, often for some time. She is required to confess to me if she breaks position. (I love making her wait. My favorite scene in the Story of O is when Rene hands O over to Sir Stephen for the first time and she is made to wait with her rear in the air until he returns to use her for the first time.) When I use her mouth, she knows exactly when she is supposed to take me all the way in etc. When she is on top of me, she knows that she is immediately required to present her body for inspection and the crop/strap--body arched, head back, no eye contact. When she turns over to be taken in the rear, she is required to fold her hands beneath her always. No bottoms permitted in bed except during heavy periods. Full wax, including anal area, required monthly. We did have one amusing experience with waxing recently. She is so used to assuming a position with her rear in the air that she did just that recently when the waxer asked her to turn over! Sir Lawrence 8 May 08, 9:08 PM anjuli UK, 4 yrs Hi lb I'd suggest starting with building some rituals around asking for permissions which helps to put yourself in a submissive frame of mind and gives him explicit control, reminding you not to take things for granted. So, permission to share his bed comes to mind, and can easily be made into a nightly ritual of kneeling, talking about the day, feeding back on how you've done and so earning a place (once you've begged for it of course) beside him. Another good one is a ritual greeting when your Master returns home. I know mine loves to be met by a naked slave on her knees formally welcoming him to his home. More if they come to me. anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~