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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Daily Routine ?" 1 2 Daily Routine ? (14) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Wed 12 Dec 07, 6:11 AM 735-000-549 US, 4 yrs Hi A/all, my Master and myself are new to this lifestyle. I was just curious as to what E/everyone's daily routine is. Like, do Y/you get up, make breakfast for your Master, He locks you up, leaves for work, comes home,un bounds you and such? Do you go to work and it all starts when you get home? Just wondering! Thanks. <3 Edited Wed 12 Dec 07, 8:34 AM by 735-000-549 12 Dec 07, 8:24 AM MistressAlpha UK, 5 yrs £ I suspect few slaves get away without having to go out to work! But your lifestyle should be what you two make it, what you two need from it. Others' routines won't help you understand it, but others' attitudes and dialogue processes might. Mistress Alpha My business websites are www.mistressalpha.co.uk, www.ladyalpha.co.uk and www.slavebook.co.uk Kinky flat for rent or hire: www.alphadns1.co.uk/kinkyflat.htm Love life, live life, squeeze it 'till it hurts!!! 12 Dec 07, 11:49 AM Masters_zero 5 yrs i don't know if i look at it as "getting away " with not going to work but i am owned by a master that requires me to be at His disposal 24/7. Since He does not leave the house for work, it would make little sense for Him to cage me all day. He would then have to get His own clothing, make His meals, take care of the animals, do the housework, fetch the mail, run errands, worship Himself orally, slap a blowup doll around and so forth. It is much more beneficial to Him to have slave with Him 24 as i am in constant service to Him. it is different for each...that's just the way it is for U/us. Whatever your Master desires is the way your daily routine should go. Some masters feel a need or desire to give slave list of chores to be done in their absence, other masters believe they shouldn't have to, that slave is expected to know. However many M/s relationships there are, that's how many different variances in day to day lifestyle you would get. Best Wishes ~zero~ Dahlings...."The difference between 'involvement' and 'commitment' is like an eggs and ham breakfast; the chicken was 'involved'- the pig was committed". 12 Dec 07, 12:31 PM SixThreeFive SE, 5 yrs There's another thread about that here: http://www.slaveregister.com/boards/ritual/96679... Could you fly, quite suddenly, off the boat, screaming like a girl? - Flushed Away 12 Dec 07, 6:50 PM 770-326-260 US, 5 yrs i think it is truly something great to "get away" with not having to go OUT to work, which is what i think was written initially. I'm one of those lucky ones who works from home; and, yes, with Master retired and available all day, it wouldn't make much sense for me to have to go out to work all day. We talked about that at the beginning and figured that my working from home was really going to be a positive factor -- and it certainly has been. i guess i remember feeling rather like a slave (and not a consensual one) when i slaved away for various companies, non profits, etc throughout my life... margo 12 Dec 07, 7:05 PM morgan US(WA), 4 yrs Y! 735-000-549 wrote: Daily Routine ? Hi A/all, my Master and myself are new to this lifestyle. I was just curious as to what E/everyone's daily routine is. Like, do Y/you get up, make breakfast for your Master, He locks you up, leaves for work, comes home,un bounds you and such? Do you go to work and it all starts when you get home? Just wondering! Thanks. <3 well the daily routine here is that on weekdays i am to assist my Mistress in the mornings get ready for work by fixing Her coffee,breakfast and lunch. once that is done i have a daily list of things to be done around the house.at night when She comes in i am to get dinner ready ectera. also i do the same when my Lord is here as well,i (with a bit of help) prep breakfast on the weekends,do His laundry,fix coffee ect..... 12 Dec 07, 9:29 PM Dragonfyre UK, 5 yrs Personally I would be wary about keeping a slave locked up while I was out of the house, in such a way that she couldn't get out, in case there was an emergency. I do like the idea of having her wear a chain or something to remind her of her status all the time, but I wouldn't leave her chained to the wall or anything like that and left unattended. Dan 12 Dec 07, 10:59 PM 741-498-880 4 yrs ((This is from my Blog--- and some things have changed or been adjusted since it was written )) Weekdays – I get up with Master. I fix his lunch, sometimes I bathe him, depends on his mood. We have coffee, if there's time for him to get it, if it's before 6am; I get mine later in the day. Our son wakes up between 6-8am depending on the day. He eats breakfast while watching cartoons. This gives me time to write master his daily journal email. Son and I play (Or run errands or do outdoor activities.), I feed him lunch, I do chores (And insert butt plug if its applicable.) and son usually has activities he does by himself, building blocks, coloring, or an art projects usually. He then gets quiet time with a snack up stairs while watching a selected educational video. I do my writing assignments and any missed chores during this time. (And cleaning up any messes our kiddo makes.) I start dinner 30 minutes before Master is expected home so I can time it for when he walks into the door. Master gets home, I greet him, tell him I am happy to see him. I serve our son and him dinner and then myself. We eat together. I take dishes to the sink and clear the table. (I then go remove butt plug.) Depending on his mood I will sit on the couch with him for a few minutes, or I am allowed to go straight to my free time… Master will do dishes and have father/son time while I have my free time until its ready to get our son into bed. We do this together and tuck him in with a story each night. Then our door shuts and my clothes come off and I become his slave openly (I am not allowed to cover myself unless he wishes to see undies, or fancy nightclothes on me.), no rules, no careful glances or whispered words. No being able to point to our son and hide behind him like a shield. On weekends our days include more family outings and activities. But once he is in bed… I cease being a mother first and become a slave first. It does not protect me from bad thoughts, but I do think of my Master all day long while he is gone, I wish I had more structure and strictness, but with the ability to not feel like I failed if I cannot meet all requirements.. (Stuff comes up as a mother that puts other things on the back burner, like flooded toilets, lost socks, having to clean up messes, or change sheets because he had an accident…) Sometimes I am too tired to more than the most basic functions during the day if I am to serve Master properly when he gets home. I think a schedule is important for me, and my son to stay in a normal routine, it allows us to keep our day under control… (for the most part…we won't talk about throwing blankets over one's head and running face first into the wall, or having a 2 hour meltdown because he has to eat his lunch BEFORE he gets his brownie, I of course being the good mother I am, put my foot down and will not budge.) Those types of situations tend to mess the schedule up, but the more routine and scheduled activities we have, the less the trouble we have on a daily basis. It really makes a difference. This has made it easier to be a good mother, a good slave, a good wife. I think a tighter more structured schedule (with room for “things to happen…” hehe) would be good if slowly introduced so it's not all at once. I really enjoy my writing tasks, (as this is also one.) and would enjoy more writing tasks and assignments with easy to achieve goals and things I can accomplish on a daily basis so I don't feel so useless! I think more writing assignments would be fun, but I don't know if I could accomplish it each day, depends on what goes wrong… and what goes right! Thank you Master for providing me with a schedule, and allowing me the time to think about it and what might be good for me. 13 Dec 07, 12:03 AM 770-326-260 US, 5 yrs 735-000-549 wrote: Daily Routine ? Hi A/all, my Master and myself are new to this lifestyle. I was just curious as to what E/everyone's daily routine is. Like, do Y/you get up, make breakfast for your Master, He locks you up, leaves for work, comes home,un bounds you and such? Do you go to work and it all starts when you get home? Just wondering! Thanks. <3 In O/our home, normally.... i wake up about 5am and Master remains sleeping. i get my coffee, bathe, prayers, then to my desk to work by 6am...(listen to Howard Stern and get my first laugh of the day...work on my cases until Master gets up around 9:30ish. Then after brushing teeth, etc, he always wants hugs and kisses. While he was brushing his teeth, i open his computer and turn it on so it'll be warmed up by the time he sits at his desk. Then i serve him the first thing that goes into his body each day...one full liter of water. He will not eat for one full hour after he drinks his water so in the meantime he checks his email, etc. and i go back to my desk for another 40 minutes or so. My work day for law is fairly finished at that time, except for emergency cases and answering the telephone to take questions and make appointments,(which i try to organize all for one day so it doesn't interfere with our lives too much -- usually saturdays), give case updates, etc. Although i do answer the phone, i am at Master's call for the rest of the day until i go to bed. After he has waited for one hour after his water, i serve him breakfast. Depending on the time of year, it could be whole fruit pureed with some frozen to make a wonderful slushy. He loves this. But before he eats anything, he eats 3 dates and believes they give him certain nutrients that give him physical power. Breakfast is generally just fruits -- maybe some nuts. Perhaps an egg white omelet...depends. Master doesn't usually make food requests so i fix whatever i think He will enjoy or what i think his body organism needs in terms of nutrients... During his breakfast, Master usually likes to have me sit with him and he talks with me. We may talk about anything -- politics, weapons (he's an expert and trained sniper), history, God, science...anything. He's very smart. When he's done with his breakfast (i have already eaten a couple of bananas or apple earlier when i work at my desk)...then it's normally time for first sex of the day ... then Master will sleep for about 10 minutes...He gets up and showers again. Then we go out an do any errands we want to do -- or Master may want more sex...i just never know. Soon it's lunch time and that's our big meal of the day. I've taken out whatever needs thawing early when i woke up so it's ready for seasoning and preparation. I love to cook and it's a breeze for me. I always prepare something i know my Master will enjoy and he loves my cooking!! We eat together in the living room and usually end up watching a movie together. Probably more sex at this time. Then Master takes a little nap for about 1 hour or so. If he sleeps more than 2 hours, i wake him up gently so that he'll be able to sleep again at night. He always wakes up in a great mood and wants lots of kisses and hugs at that time. Master takes another quicky shower and then normally goes back on his computer and will work on his emails and just surf around looking at watches and stuff like that. At this time i am cleaning or sweeping or organizing something. Master will ask me if i would like for him to do anything like go to the post office or bank or buy something at the store. I almost always "have forgotten" something i needed and ask him to go for me. This is the chance i can get him to walk a bit each day. He walks at a fast pace and gets his heart beat up. Sometimes we walk together, but normally, i want to stick around the phone in case someone calls (This i am going to change and will accompany Master on his walks as he always encourages me to do). Then we're just back home..maybe chatting with each other. Maybe he's just reading his Newpapers on line in Arabic while i'm in the studio working on a quilt or a painting or something. Master tells me when he is ready for his evening meal which is usually some type of lentil or bean soup because we only eat our animal protein at our early lunch meal. So i'll serve something like a nice black bean soup with a slice of avocado and red onion and green salad. That's all he really needs for evening meal. Clean up kitchen and mop the floor in kitchen. Then i make his night snack which he'll eat ...i always make him air popped corn (a big bowl) with olive oil, sea salt and cayanne pepper...He loves it spicy... i tell Master where there is extra food ready for him, if there's more fruit slushy, etc. Then he calls me over to give him a hug and kiss. I tell him that i feel i need to lie down and he always says to go and sleep. It's usually about 8pm or so around then. Although i go lie down, invariably Master needs something or can't find something (which is allllllllways night under his nose!!) so i have to get up and help him...I usually get to sleep around 9-10pm and i feel Master climb in the bed around 2am. He sometimes wants more sex. Then he'll sleep until the next morning and we do it all again! (used to be that no one would have the balls to try to wake me up from sleep. I have the dirtiest mouth and will insult my own sweet mother if she woke me up from deep sleep. WHen first with Master, i cursed him and carried on (really, i am still in a sort of dream state when this happens) so badly that he began to laugh...but after a couple of weeks he told me that he liked to wake me up for sex so i should get used to it - and you know what? now he wakes me up for sex and i don't complaint -- maybe i AM making some progress, hmm. I'm thinking now to try to take a nap when Master does. He always asks me to, but there's cleaning and cases and telephones, but i'm going to change this from now on...and maybe a little nap may be good for my mood as well... That's my day.. slave margo 13 Dec 07, 4:10 AM 000-778-401 UK, 7 yrs A typical (week)day for me: Wake up at about 6am with Mistress. I am awful awful awful at getting up early so this is always a rough start to the day. I feed the cat and make Mistress's coffee while She is in the shower, turn the TV on to Her morning news programme etc. I'm not allowed to use the furniture without permission, so I wait on my knees generally, naked. Generally I'll be allowed to put something on and sit on the couch at some point. Refresh Her coffee. Be witty and intelligent in conversation until She leaves for work. Then it is housework time, but I have a fair amount of freedom in my time as long as what needs to be done gets done. I will keep in touch with friends back in my home country online, perhaps read, as well as doing the cleaning/laundry/shopping/whatever. It's generally not a tough 'working day', although sometimes there are more requirements than others. It's when Mistress gets home from work that it becomes harder work for me. Occasionally I receive an order to be dressed a certain way or whatever when She arrives home, but regardless of that the evening is Her time, not mine for sure. Cooking dinner, clearing it up, fetching drinks, emptying ashtrays, massaging feet, brushing hair, dancing/stripping, being a table, getting used anally etc etc etc. It's not a bad life 13 Dec 07, 7:55 PM 735-000-549 US, 4 yrs thank you to E/everyone who responded Next page