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TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "what do you put in it?"

what do you put in it? (8)

This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board.

Tue 30 Oct 07, 9:36 PM
S_Kitten
UK, 4 yrs
This may seem like an odd question but what do you actualy right in your Master/slave contract? of if anyone could direct me to some examples that would be appreciated.

Kitten

Masters little Kitten. I serve to please

30 Oct 07, 10:23 PM
Master_Teel
US(TX), 4 yrs

Here is where I started...

Contracts on Wipipedia

Master_Teel

31 Oct 07, 1:12 AM
Michael_X
UK, 6 yrs
S_Kitten wrote:
what do you put in it?

This may seem like an odd question but what do you actualy right in your Master/slave contract? of if anyone could direct me to some examples that would be appreciated.

Kitten

Well here is something from the eighties, nearly twenty years ago. Apologies for the formatting and strange backslash codes that once told the printer driver what to do. This dates to my first and only LDR M/s, with Dorothy. I am particularly tickled by my use of capitalisation (was I the first?) and safeword (well established even then). The reality, we went a great deal further.

To answer your question, you write what you wish. If I was a relationship counselor I would suggest you each separately write your ideal contract then compare. Afterwards you either post them on the internet looking for the ideal partner or more sensibly merge them to produce something that you both can sign.

Michael

/c/f3CONTRACT OF SLAVERY/f0

/w/j This document records the details of an agreement between a slave and her Master concerning the nature of their relationship. This relationship has been entered into freely and may be dissolved by either party. However while the relationship continues the slave agrees to comply with both the letter and spirit of this document.

/f1THE SLAVE WILLINGLY AGREES TO THE FOLLOWING:-/f0

/f1Collar/f0

The slave shall be permitted to wear her Masters collar at any time. She will regard this as a privilege. She shall repeat aloud the words "this is my Masters collar and I am his slavegirl" whenever she places the collar around her neck. She shall do this whilst kneeling naked if possible. At her Masters discretion her collar may be tagged with her name and/or details of her submission.

/f1Respect/f0

At all times both in public and private the slave shall show respect to her Master. She must address him only as Sir or Master unless she has permission to use his name. Such permission will normally only exist in public among people known to either the slave or her Master and who are not aware of her status. She shall show respect in all her contacts with her Master including those by telephone and by letter.

In his presence her behaviour and demeanor shall be submissive at all times and she shall station herself in a position subordinate to his whenever physically possible. She shall speak to or otherwise distract her Master only when granted his permission.

/f1Obedience/f0

The slave shall immediately, diligently and enthusiastically comply with and submit herself to any and all directions or desires of her Master which he may express by word, signal, action or any other means. She shall do whatever she is instructed to and accept whatever her Master desires of her. She shall obey anyone her Master instructs her to as if the orders had come from her Master.

This duty of obedience to her Master shall apply at all times in his presence and also at any other times when she has put herself under his control (including when she telephones him).

Should she be instructed to do something she does not wish or should she find a particular punishment or penance unendurable then she may beg her Master to show mercy. The probability of her being shown mercy will be directly proportional to the sincerity of her begging.

/p/f1Punishment/f0

Deliberate disobedience, insolence or other misdeed by the slave will result in punishment. She may also be punished for failure to please or simply for her Masters entertainment. The slave will not always be told why she is being punished. The form punishment takes may be decided upon by the slaves Master or she may be permitted to request an appropriate punishment or choose among alternate punishments.

The slave may be spanked, strapped, tawsed, caned, whipped or beaten with whatever implement her Master wishes. This may be done with sufficient severity as to cause marks such as weals or bruises that last for days. Other punishments may include being made to remain in uncomfortable or awkward positions for extended periods of time, perhaps in bondage. Being required to wear or do without certain items of clothing and being made to perform humiliating or embarrassing acts.

When she is to be disciplined the slave shall behave with dignity and willingness. Extra strokes will be awarded for trying to avoid the punishment implement. Prior to severe discipline or upon failure to keep reasonably still she may be bound. Unreasonable noise may result in gagging and additional strokes. She may also be gagged if her screams might annoy others nearby. Following punishment the slave will thank her Master.

/f1Clothing and Bodily Appearance/f0

The Slave shall keep the need to give her Master pleasure foremost in her mind when selecting the clothing and makeup she wears in his presence. Whilst in his presence she will not wear any garments that restrict or hamper access to her body. She shall never wear jeans or trousers. She shall not wear panties or other covering between her legs unless told to do so by her Master. The slave shall keep herself smooth shaven between her thighs.

The slave may request to be branded, pierced or tattooed as a mark of her status. She will not be required to undergo such. She shall not have any part of her body branded, tattooed or pierced without her Masters permission.

/f1Bondage and Sexual Servitude/f0

The slave agrees to partake in and perform any sexual act her Master wishes and to make her body and all its orifices fully available to him for his pleasure in whatever fashion he desires. She shall also seek to give pleasure to any man or woman her master orders her to.

The slave will accept being be bound in whatever positions her Master wishes wherever and whenever he chooses. This may include being blindfolded and/or gagged as well as restraint with rope, chains, manacles, straps, etc. The slave will frequently be bound for her Masters use and may be required to struggle and pretend resistance. Whilst helpless vibrators, dildoes and the like may be used upon her and her body may be used by her Master for his pleasure in any way he wishes.

While the slaves body will respond to use by her Master she must remember that the pleasure she receives is at the discretion of and a gift from her Master. She will thank him accordingly.

/p/c/f1NOTES/f0

/_Meetings/_

It shall be the duty of the slave to contact her Master to arrange to meet him whenever she wishes to be dominated. Having contacted her Master the slave must conduct herself appropriately. Once arranged failure to keep a meeting without good cause will be considered a serious offense.

/_"Crackers" /_

In a situation where there is insufficient time for the slave to beg or where her begging is ineffective and she cannot endure what is happening the slave will be permitted to call a halt to the proceedings by using the word "crackers". Use of this word will result in instant cessation of any sexual activity or punishment and release from bondage. Misuse of this word will not be tolerated (a choice will be offered of a beating or ending the relationship).

/_Severity of Punishments/_

In entering into this agreement the slave wishes to make it clear that under the hand of her Master the pain associated with punishment is of an erotic nature and that she seeks and desires such treatment. Without the constant possibility of such treatment and the occasional reality of it her role would be less fulfilling. The slave accepts the marks that may arise from these games as being no worse or different than the bruises and such people get from participating in sport.

31 Oct 07, 4:18 AM
Mstrs_Slv
US(OR), 6 yrs
Y!*
That's giving me ideas for O/our contract, which is still in the writing stage!

mstrsslv

31 Oct 07, 4:37 AM
ravenkaldera
US(MA), 6 yrs

Ours is on our BDSM website, here:

http://baphomet.genderrage.com/joshcontract.html

Use what you will. Feel free to ask questions.

-Raven Kaldera

31 Oct 07, 9:24 PM
Red_Spark
UK, 5 yrs
Thanks for posting that link, Raven; it's very interesting. :)
1 Nov 07, 11:50 AM
Karms_slave_fae
CA, 4 yrs
Thank you for sharing Raven - very well written!

A couple of comments: I think it is important, as Raven has done, is to chose a time frame to re-evaluate the contract. People, as well as the relationships they are in, are ever evolving. Amending the contract periodically, IMO,shows respect, not only for each other, but for the foundations of the relationship. If this is your first contract, perhaps a shorter re-evaluation period may work best.

Something else that I found important in Raven and Joshua's contract is setting out Raven's obligations to Joshua. A contract is an agreement between TWO people. If it is written setting out only what Master expects from his slave, then, IMO, it is not a contract, but a list of rules for slave to follow.

fae property of Karm

1 Nov 07, 2:18 PM
ravenkaldera
US(MA), 6 yrs

We formally reeexamine our contract every year on Beltane - May 1 - although for the past couple of years it's been "Any issues?" "Nope. It's good." "OK then." But one never knows what's going to come up in future.

We also wanted to make a contract that would be very practical - not a whole lot of fetishy stuff that he would do for me. As far as I'm concerned, that all comes under "absolute access to body" and "absolute obedience". It's not important *what* he does, it's how he does it and with what expectations.

I should also point out that my obligations in this contract are not there because he is holding me to them, or subtly pushing me into them. They are there because I am holding myself to them, because this is part of my code of honor. He has no ability to enforce them, or to make me do anything I don't want to do. I do it for myself, because it would be bad for my soul in many ways to be an unethical tyrant. Since I'm in charge, I have to look after not only his psyche but my own.

-Raven Kaldera

2 Nov 07, 11:50 AM
Karms_slave_fae
CA, 4 yrs
ravenkaldera wrote:
They are there because I am holding myself to them, because this is part of my code of honor.
I understood this to be the case and thank you for pointing it out for clarification. I have provided Master with a copy of your contract and am certain that our revised contract will be a reflection of yours. I recognize traits that you and Master have in common, including the importance of maintaining of a code of honor. *smiles*

fae, Property of Karm

 

 
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