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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Inappropriate behavours" 1 2 Inappropriate behavours (12) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 31 Oct 07, 3:21 AM 957-741-787 US, 6 yrs The suggestions that have been previously offered are all good ones, and it seems that there is little advice that I can offer that would top what has been said except, perhaps, a quick sharp slap across the face? Nothing to hurt, but to sting certainly. Just enough to get your attention. Obviously not in public, but when it happens in private? You'd be surprised what such a response in private can do to help you remember your manners in public. But try some of the other suggestions first (unless the two of you really think that this would be the best help, LOL). I want to go into something here, if you'll allow me, that's been hinted to by several respondents, but not really dealt with. That being the underlying causes for this behavior. You realize, it seems from what you've said, that this is a direct product of your past and not your current circumstances, and there are some deeply rooted psychological issues at work here. Not that you're demented or anything, but there are obviously things from your past that you need to work through to eliminate the CAUSE of these reactions, and in your search for something to slap you across the face when you behave in such a manner, I hope that your master and you will not overlook this. seven Simply a humble, unowned girl. (formerly sakura) 31 Oct 07, 10:31 PM latexalexa UK, 7 yrs 957-741-787 wrote: The suggestions that have been previously offered are all good ones, and it seems that there is little advice that I can offer that would top what has been said except, perhaps, a quick sharp slap across the face? Nothing to hurt, but to sting certainly. Just enough to get your attention. Obviously not in public, but when it happens in private? You'd be surprised what such a response in private can do to help you remember your manners in public. But try some of the other suggestions first (unless the two of you really think that this would be the best help, LOL). I want to go into something here, if you'll allow me, that's been hinted to by several respondents, but not really dealt with. That being the underlying causes for this behavior. You realize, it seems from what you've said, that this is a direct product of your past and not your current circumstances, and there are some deeply rooted psychological issues at work here. Not that you're demented or anything, but there are obviously things from your past that you need to work through to eliminate the CAUSE of these reactions, and in your search for something to slap you across the face when you behave in such a manner, I hope that your master and you will not overlook this. Hi Seven, I have already digested some of the suggestions made and have, from this, been able to break down the process of reaction and emotion into it's compnent parts, allowing me to explain how and why it happens and how to best avoid it in the future. I fully accept that there maybe times in which a more serious outcome maybe needed to remind me of correct behaviour, however overall I have found this exercise to be very useful in seperating out the various points of my reaction and would like to thank anyone who has contributed and helped me reach this point. The slave register boards are certainy a worth resource.