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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Serving friends and family while naked or very skimply dressed," 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Serving friends and family while naked or very skimply dressed, (96) This topic is now full - if you want to reply, please make a new post on the board itself. This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 23 Nov 07, 8:48 AM 957-741-787 US, 6 yrs Princess Brit, it depends. Some relationships do allow for limts, some don't. But regardless of that, it all comes down to trust and a Top-type knowing what's best for his or her bottom-type. For example, a Master who knows that his slave's family is very important to her, and that they have a close relationship, obviously it would be damaging to the girl to do anything that would put a rift between her and her family. If he thought that having her behave in a manner such as the OP suggests would alienate her from her family, he would be unlikely to demand that she do so. However, there are families who are aware and/or share each other's lifestyle values, and they might be amused by and appreciative of such a display, and a Master might use that to reinforce his control over his slave. There are some other very interesting and insightful discussions on the boards about limits, I recommend you look them up and read through them to get a better understanding of how they relate to trust and the whole idea of TPE, lest we hijack the OP's question onto an unrelated topic. As for my reply to the OP -- I have never served anyone who has demanded this of me. I'm honestly not sure how my parents would react, though other members of my family (my niece and nephew, for example) would probably be more than ok with it. However, I'm not that close with my parents, and I would likely care little if they never spoke to me again, especially over something as silly as serving them dinner naked in my own home, LOL! If they want to be that petty, that's fine. So I would do it if it was required of me, but that doesn't mean I would enjoy it. seven Simply a humble, unowned girl. (formerly sakura) 23 Nov 07, 3:55 PM 741-498-880 4 yrs serendipity76 wrote: PrincessBritney wrote: Give me a break. I understand that you guys take this thing seriously, and I respect your decisions, but it's still a consensual relationship! And I never mentioned anyone else! I outlined how MY family would respond and MY reasons for refusing to do such a thing! Hi PrincessBritney, I understand your thinking on this matter. Would you be willing to consider that, for most of us here, the consensual part is mainly that we consent to the relationship and not necessarily that we choose whether or not to give consent to whatever we are asked to do? Once we consent to the relationship, any other choices are pretty much gone, unless we choose to leave the relationship. I would certainly prefer to not do this with my family. I think that my wishes would be respected, if only because my family would not take it very well at all. However, it isn't really my choice. The fact that I don't think he would force me to do this is irrelevant. I suppose it would be a different story with HIS friends and family, depending on how they felt about it. I'd be uncomfortable and embarrassed, but I wouldn't say no. Having read your posts on some other threads, I know that you are here trying to learn. Most of the folks here have been very tolerant of your posts, even when they are hurtful, because you are new to this idea. Please understand that most of us have chosen to live this way because it does make us happy, even if some of the things we do are uncomfortable. ~serendipity Serendipity, thank you for addressing this issue, because thats how I feel on the whole subject and what I would have replied... Consensual non-consent.. (I love that phrase) Once many of us have said "I give my choices to you" there isn't turning back for most of us, I popped my safe word and was told, You do not have a safe word, You do not have the option of leaving, You are mine and belong to me. And I was relieved. He still respected me to find out why I had popped it in the situation before he continue'd, but he very clearly told me that I had no rights, no choices.. nothing.. My only choice is to leave, and that is not something I would ever do. Now coming to the clothes issue, I am totally willing to do whatever he wishes, but he feels that having me be naked in front of our child or family would be a risk he's unwilling to take. (And I agree. I don't want to risk losing our child because outsiders can't understand our relationship, so until our kids our out of our house and... the world becomes more accepting in public about alterantive lifestyles, I will respect Masters bounderies.. and he usually buys/picks my clothes out to wear and always approves everything I wear before we leave the house.) If it was a BDSM friendly people that I would be serving, (i.e. people who are aware and don't have issues and our child wasn't here) then its fair game and I have no doubts that he'd use it however he felt was best suited to his feelings that day. 23 Nov 07, 4:35 PM slave2serve UK, 4 yrs i have been naked and been punished in front of strangers but only people in the lifestyle. However i've always had a fantasy dream of being naked, gagged and restrained as the centrepiece of a sexy or swapping party with a selection of whips floggers etc there for anyone to use on me. i suppose not surprisingly the opportunity has never happened. (Yet!) 26 Nov 07, 4:00 AM alcazar AU, 5 yrs Y! What happened to Princes Brittany? She was fun to read .... in a Jerry Springer sort of way! Bring back Brittany ! She was correct on one point however .... the way the term "slave" is used is different from the way it would have been used 200 years ago. 200 years ago ... the transition from free person to slave was totally non consensual and release was not an option. Today's lifestyle slave can always leave if he or she wishes, which really should be a diferent word, as these 2 "slaves" are clearly not the same. 26 Nov 07, 4:34 AM 862-203-011 AU, 5 yrs Evander3000 wrote: What happened to Princes Brittany? She was fun to read .... in a Jerry Springer sort of way! Bring back Brittany ! If you go to other topics (follow the link so thoughtfully provided above) you will find the Princess Brittany thread. It is a guaranteed "Jerry" type read. She was one of the many incarnation of the resident troll, whose personas included the memorable British Spirit. No doubt he will emerge once again. Master's piece Edited 26 Nov 07, 4:36 AM by 862-203-011 26 Nov 07, 10:30 AM slavegail UK, 6 yrs Y! written with Permission of NG1. this slave is always naked when in the house apart from 3 bells on nipples and clit.Owners are members of (small group)about 12 people slave remains naked around them as do most of their slaves. when none lifestyle people are around slave is either send to her basement until they have gone or told to put on slacks and tee shirt.(no underware)this is not to protect them or save slaves blushes but part of Owners business is at times working in church and schools repairs and renovatoins and shows good pratice. slavegail Property of NG1 26 Nov 07, 4:48 PM his_mamasan US, 4 yrs PrincessBritney wrote: Thank you! For being nice! Yes, I can understand that line of reasoning. You would do it, okay. I read the previous post to be that there WAS no choice at all, when of course there is always the choice to leave. But surely you guys have limits, like things that you agree from the start you WON'T do no matter what. In any case I would certainly have limits, and keeping family out of it would be one. And I WAS talking about me personally. respectfully, i am not a slave however from what i have learned slaves give up the choice to have a choice. sure they have the choice to leave the relationship but being a slave means giving up your decisions to your Master/Mistress. a good Master/Mistress will put your best interest first however slaves choose to give all of that power up for vaious reasons. that may not be your choice (and i understand you were only reffering to yourself) but it's not a choice for many of the people on this board. 27 Nov 07, 11:19 PM Sir_Nate CA, 5 yrs Y! 611-076-712 wrote: Serving friends and family while naked or very skimply dressed, This is something that I don't know anything about but would like to know about. If anyone has done this, could you please comment on it. Slavemike57 This is quite an interesting topic I know my Princess (sub wife) had never considered it nor would but she has had a "Sir" (to me) slip from time to time (and personally love it) when a "vanilla" friend has been around but thats it. Perhaps with one day I can get her used to the idea of being naked, skimpilly dressed or such while our vanilla friend is around So far we have no Kink-friendly friends locally yet. Nate 28 Nov 07, 2:22 AM dynfawr 5 yrs 611-076-712 wrote: Serving friends and family while naked or very skimply dressed, This is something that I don't know anything about but would like to know about. If anyone has done this, could you please comment on it. Slavemike57 Serving Master and His friends nearly naked has been part of my service since just about the beginning but if family are visiting i am dressed more modestly. It may well be different for me as Master is gay as are most of His friends are gay too and they do not see it as offensive in any way. It was embarrassing at first but i have come to enjoy it as most of His friends are familiar with O/our relationship now and it is a good opportunity to emphasise the power imbalance. Some do not even seem to notice anymore whilst others remain a bit slap happy. 376-901-465 - thankfully in service to a generous Master 28 Nov 07, 11:16 AM 816-106-177 UK, 4 yrs Y! Hi my dom often makes me live naked, esp after being bad or being punished, it is part of the punishment, i often have to go out shopping in micro clothign eg maximum 11" long skirt loose top. I never ever wear lingerie it is just forbiden. Next page