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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Serving friends and family while naked or very skimply dressed," 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Serving friends and family while naked or very skimply dressed, (96) This topic is now full - if you want to reply, please make a new post on the board itself. This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Wed 26 Sep 07, 11:05 AM 611-076-712 US, 6 yrs Y! This is something that I don't know anything about but would like to know about. If anyone has done this, could you please comment on it. Slavemike57 26 Sep 07, 11:29 AM DaS_13 US, 4 yrs I have not had my pet serve family and friends naked or skimply dressed, but it is an interesting thought. I may have her do it one day, but for now I just will have her wear something special when we are around non-BDSM family and friends. Whether that something is a scarf, a wristband, a cute necklace... Just something she is wearing for me and only for me, as a symbol of her slavery. Owner of Clover - Slave number: 465-186-919. 27 Sep 07, 1:30 PM 879-717-990 UK, 5 yrs my Owner would prefer me naked when at home 24/7 but He is aware that this is just not practical. He prefers me to dress quite slutty and from time to time, i will push the limit of decency (for a 45 year old grandmother with a very wide backside!!) and wear little skirts etc when we go out. He loves it. The most important thing is that no harm comes to me psychologically so He would never ask me to go too far in public. When in the company of BDSM folk, all bets are off, and depending upon the venue, i could be dressed or undressed in just about anything. We both have teenage children and although they are aware of our lifestyle, i am protective of them and always dress kid/parents friendly. my opinion is that what we do is consensual but exposing ourselves to others, especially if they have not consented, is not really fair. slave tsina 27 Sep 07, 1:37 PM Nemo_bbsl US, 6 yrs I've had slaves do this but only with people comfortable with the lifestyle (OK maybe one vanilla, but one time the slave talked the vanilla into changing places with her.) Note that Halloween at the Village Parade all bets are off. 27 Sep 07, 8:40 PM PrincessBritney UK, 4 yrs Heh, no WAY for family! My Dad and Brother would probably floor the guy and my mum would just be really upset. I find it's better to keep my sex life as far away as possible from my family and friends! PS: There's no way I'd agree to it in the first place! Trust in your own strength, values and beliefs. Learn to repeat endlessly to yourself, 'It all depends on me.' 27 Sep 07, 8:52 PM Nemo_bbsl US, 6 yrs PrincessBritney wrote: Heh, no WAY for family! My Dad and Brother would probably floor the guy and my mum would just be really upset. I find it's better to keep my sex life as far away as possible from my family and friends! PS: There's no way I'd agree to it in the first place! First there are some people here whose parents are aware of their status and have no problems with it. Second you don't understand that to many people who post here the concept of agree doesn't enter into it. Different Owners here have different limits to which they hold their property but they expect immediate acceptance and no argument from their property. Having agreed to become a slave they may well make no further decision in their life. Nemo 27 Sep 07, 9:16 PM His_devada US, 5 yrs This seems like it could also transcend to other areas of degradation/humiliation that are similar. My owner vasillates between making me wear my "safe panties" under a skirt in case the wind blows it up...then next time lifting it up exposing no panties to his friends or whomever else he decides. As far as serving, yes I've had to do this as well. One example was about 2 months ago. It wasn't planned, but one day while making coffee/cooking breakfast wearing a t-shirt of his which didn't come down very far..and nothing else...a friend of his stopped by to borrow something. He offered him to sit down and join us for breakfast. I reached for the shirt trying to pull it down, hoping somehow it would magically grow about 8" in length in the next 40 seconds--he said, "Leave it." So I did. He instructed his friend to sit, that I would do everything and for him just to tell me what he wanted in his coffee. His friend (vanilla) was obviously very amused as well as turned on by all of this. I guess maybe I am calloused to such things now, because it really doesn't seem like such a big deal--to have to serve him, or his friends, (the closest we've ever come to family is his step-brother) whether I am clothed, scantily clad or completely naked. I get simultaneously flustered and excited about being forced to publicly serve or otherwise outwardly display obedience to him as well as be exposed in front of others, and also since it is not the same all the time I never know whether it is "be modest time" or "leave your ass hanging out for my friends to see" time. Keeps me on edge--which is scrumptious. His~devada (formerly)~~princess4dfd~~ Anyone can say "I'd die for you" because it is rarely tested, but I can honestly say that I live for you...and will prove it every day. 27 Sep 07, 9:17 PM PrincessBritney UK, 4 yrs Give me a break. I understand that you guys take this thing seriously, and I respect your decisions, but it's still a consensual relationship! And I never mentioned anyone else! I outlined how MY family would respond and MY reasons for refusing to do such a thing! Trust in your own strength, values and beliefs. Learn to repeat endlessly to yourself, 'It all depends on me.' 27 Sep 07, 9:40 PM 681-671-077 4 yrs My Master does not make me do this when with either his family or mine, but does find ways to remind me that I am owned. He doesn't do this for me but rather out of respect for them. With friends, however, he has had me serve or entertain naked or in next to nothing. A lot of our friends are lifestyle, anyway, but even those who aren't know about our relationship and expect that I'm to behave a certain way. I complain sometimes, but the truth is that I wouldn't have it any other way. saphira_draca Collared and owned by Ropeany1 Edited 28 Sep 07, 10:21 PM by 681-671-077 27 Sep 07, 10:25 PM serendipity76 US(WI), 4 yrs Y! PrincessBritney wrote: Give me a break. I understand that you guys take this thing seriously, and I respect your decisions, but it's still a consensual relationship! And I never mentioned anyone else! I outlined how MY family would respond and MY reasons for refusing to do such a thing! Hi PrincessBritney, I understand your thinking on this matter. Would you be willing to consider that, for most of us here, the consensual part is mainly that we consent to the relationship and not necessarily that we choose whether or not to give consent to whatever we are asked to do? Once we consent to the relationship, any other choices are pretty much gone, unless we choose to leave the relationship. I would certainly prefer to not do this with my family. I think that my wishes would be respected, if only because my family would not take it very well at all. However, it isn't really my choice. The fact that I don't think he would force me to do this is irrelevant. I suppose it would be a different story with HIS friends and family, depending on how they felt about it. I'd be uncomfortable and embarrassed, but I wouldn't say no. Having read your posts on some other threads, I know that you are here trying to learn. Most of the folks here have been very tolerant of your posts, even when they are hurtful, because you are new to this idea. Please understand that most of us have chosen to live this way because it does make us happy, even if some of the things we do are uncomfortable. ~serendipity 27 Sep 07, 10:41 PM PrincessBritney UK, 4 yrs Thank you! For being nice! Yes, I can understand that line of reasoning. You would do it, okay. I read the previous post to be that there WAS no choice at all, when of course there is always the choice to leave. But surely you guys have limits, like things that you agree from the start you WON'T do no matter what. In any case I would certainly have limits, and keeping family out of it would be one. And I WAS talking about me personally. Trust in your own strength, values and beliefs. Learn to repeat endlessly to yourself, 'It all depends on me.' Next page