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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Loss of respect for Master" 1 2 3 4 5 6 Loss of respect for Master (59) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 23 Jul 07, 1:53 AM 724-400-220 5 yrs atendersoul wrote: this one is very correct.... when has it been a slave's position to post such a thing openly of disapointment of Master? This may be different times and ages of the Way and Lifestyle, but is not acceptable to show disrespect for asking this type of advise... maybe slave should look deep within their self and examine if they are true to being slave...... Simply this...He asked me to. He looks over my posts about him and approves them before they go out. He looked at your post and thought you should look deep inside yourself for your knowledge of grammer. Adversity tested, Master approved 23 Jul 07, 3:25 AM little_linnet US, 6 yrs atendersoul wrote: is not acceptable to show disrespect for asking this type of advise... Goodness. Unfortunately, what is and is not acceptable isn't up to you or anyone else to decide; it's up to the couple/dominant in question. Krista Needing a new home: beautiful leather cuffs made by Sartan Of Treve. Like new! Memo for info. 23 Jul 07, 7:23 AM 284-213-544 5 yrs i'm not sure how long you've been involved in this lifestyle choice, but Masters are human beings... they do fail and make mistakes. Thinking that they are always right no matter what either says that you don't think for yourself at all and blindly follow someone or you've been brain washed. i'm sorry to say this so harshly, but come on, let's be real. 27 Jul 07, 1:32 AM Zeuskitty US(OH), 6 yrs We must remember, that even Masters/Doms are human; but this is also something that I have experienced in the past; the offending party needs to correct the behavior and the non offending party needs to have some patience and try to salve the wound left by the loss of Respect.It is a partnership, lest we forget. 9 Sep 07, 9:45 AM ChaosxandxSeduction US(CA), 5 yrs Y! I have lost respect for more then a few Masters that I have had in the past. It seems to happan to me quite easily. Although I dont expect them to be perfect... I just think that when it comes to a Master, dominance is something I vaule very highly. If a Master does something that seems to me lacks in dominace, I find it... displeasing... I find it a weakness, and I tend to exploit it making me the dominate one. I feel horrible for saying this but it happands. I've talked to them several times about this, but it never works out. But Sir, has been quite the oposite to me, he has always been dominate, in every thing that he does. And has always kept me under his thumb. If your Master is not up to the task then perhaps you might want to talk to him about it. I do suggest you discuss why you do not like this action of his, and gently suggest to him an alternative. I am Collared by Chaonooda 9 Sep 07, 3:56 PM 383-195-536 US(TX), 4 yrs 474-995-533 wrote: 541-969-139 wrote: i know a master is never wrong i have a lot of repact for my self I'm sorry but I disagree. Masters are people too, and they can be just as fallible as anyone else. Master doesn't equal God I'm afraid that I also have to agree. Even though it may not be my place to decide my Master's worth, he often times needs assurance from me that he is a good Master, just as I need His assurance that I am a good pet. Just as often as I make a mistake in following an order, He makes a mistake in giving me one that I simply CAN'T follow. As said before Master does NOT equal God, even if you personally view Him as such. Furthermore, you shouldn't assume that it was her behavior that she speaks of. It could have just as easily been His action. Why else would she say that she has lost respect for Him instead of respect and confidence in herself? 10 Sep 07, 12:58 AM slavekaci UK, 4 yrs 000-857-861 wrote: 724-400-220 wrote: Due to a recent incident that involved very childish and scary behavior, I have lost a lot of repect for my significant other. Any ideas on how to repair this would be appreciated. I'm not totally sure if i am putting this in the right place, but here we go. I am currently unowned as my previous Master behaved in such a way that i did loose respect and trust for him. I felt that i could no longer continue with the 'relationship' and so told him it was over with or without his permission. Thankfully he agreed it could end, but now i am left feeling guilty as i was going to leave regardless and i don't feel that that is how i, as a slave, should behave. I am now doubting whether, should i get a new Master, i am cut out to serve as a slave. Any advice? slavekaci 14 Jan 08, 5:16 AM Master9191963 US, 4 yrs Take life slowly, time heals all rough parts of life, sooner, or later another Master, who you feel save with, will come along, it takes time. Edited 14 Jan 08, 5:19 AM by Master9191963 14 Jan 08, 11:07 AM 770-326-260 US, 5 yrs Master9191963 wrote: Take life slowly, time heals all rough parts of life, sooner, or later another Master, who you feel save with, will come along, it takes time. Yes..take it slowly...and time does indeed seem to heal. Probably most of you know what i am going throught with my Master, but some time apart and lots of communication during that time, lots of prayer on both of our parts, admissions and apologies of Master and my own work on becoming a person with a heart that is capable of real forgiveness are causing the hurt to go away and helping me form a new, even deeper respect for my Master. i say, it's okay to give your Master another chance if he realizes he did something to hurt you and if you can actually see changes and the determination to be an adequate Master for you. Everyone makes mistakes and most mistakes can be forgiven. But i feel that it is not all up to your Master. Sure, he has to do his part to encourage your trust in him again, but i think it's also your job (and your job only) to decide whether you forgive him. If you forgive him, then do so completely -- i understand how difficult this is to do because i'm working on it but believe i've succeeded -- in your heart and actions. i'm happy i've taken the opportunity that Master's dishonesty gave me to help myself grow spiritually and emotionally...this growth will help, i believe, in my efforts to be a better and better slave. Someone above wrote about losing respect so easily for the Masters in the past. This also happens to me. The word "distasteful" (i think that was the word used but i can't look back and see that post at this moment) is perfect to describe how i feel when i see my Master engaged in some unmasterful activity. Yuckie. i'm not saying that you can forget the things your Master did, but that's different from forgiveness in my opinion. Good luck slave margo