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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "status change" status change (6) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Tue 2 Jan 07, 8:59 PM 240-169-649 US, 6 yrs My Mistress informed me She can not continue in that role. After more than a year of trying She says it is just not in Her psyche to treat me as a slave. She will play with me from now on, perhaps beat me once in a while but nothing else. Therefore my profile has been revised from owned slave to submissive in service and even that is a stretch. We will stay together as a committed couple but Vanilla to Gorilla failed. 3 Jan 07, 1:40 PM Sungmehetu US(OR), 5 yrs Y! Transitions in relationships just are bound to happen. In your case, well, love and emotions have pushed Her out of Her want of the outline of D/s. I have the opposite going on. The love of My lil-one is pushing her from submissive to slavery. Your Mistress must care for you alot that She is shedding Her position in order to be more vanilla. Yes, most of Uus lifestylers would see this transition and freak. However, She just may want to know you better as a person, and then slide back into it when it is more comfortable. I'd take this a day at a time friend. I have a feeling that She is not finished with lifestyle, but instead just beginning on the book of "you". Sungmehetu. 3 Jan 07, 1:52 PM shornIvory US, 6 yrs shorn's parents are a couple who tried his being her slave and she didn't enjoy it that much (except when pregnant with shorn, shorn's brother or shorn's sisters). She enjoys an evening, a week-end, perhaps even a week as Mistress, but not more. Except as shorn said a pregancy. At that their longest time as Mistress/slave is longer than shorn's as property in Owner/property so shorn doesn't know what the future hold this way for shorn. shorn's parents, by the way have been doing this a long time. shorn had no idea until a couple of years ago when shorn and Owner got tongue lashing about safety - we weren't. Not having to hide this from shorn's parents or most other's in shorn's family is a great relief, shorn hears the burden many others here have with trying to look vanilla to family. shorn beneath shorn's Owner's hand Edited 3 Jan 07, 3:23 PM by shornIvory 3 Jan 07, 2:31 PM 240-169-649 US, 6 yrs Well, i hope You are right, but i don't think She will take up her role again. Your insight about Her feelings of love is right on. She just can't bear to do "that" to someone She loves. 3 Jan 07, 2:35 PM 240-169-649 US, 6 yrs shornIvory wrote: shorn's parents are a couple who tried his being her slave and she didn't enjoy it that much (except when pregnant with shorn, shorn's brother or shorn's sisters). She enjoys an evening, a week-end, perhaps even a week as Mistress, but not more. Except as shorn said a pregancy. At that their longest time as Mistress/slave is longer than shorn's as property in Owner/property so shorn doesn't know what the future hold this way for shorn. shorn's parents, by the way have been doing this a long time. shorn had no idea until a couple of years ago when shorn and Owner got tongue lashing about safety - we weren't. Not having to hide this from shorn's parents or most other's in shorn's family is a great relief, shorn hears the burden many others here have with trying to look vanilla to family. your situation is unusually open and accepted. i've followed your story with some interest and curiousity looking for hints that might help U/us. Good luck as you go on. 3 Jan 07, 2:37 PM 240-169-649 US, 6 yrs 240-169-649 wrote: Well, i hope You are right, but i don't think She will take up her role again. Your insight about Her feelings of love is right on. She just can't bear to do "that" to someone She loves. This was intended to be addressed to Sungmehetu. Sorry for the imprecision. 3 Jan 07, 5:06 PM 947-747-485 CH, 6 yrs i understand you. i am also a submissive in service, but i would like to be treated as a slave, to receive a collar... but i have no opportunity to do it.