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	TSR : Profiles : T_Titillatus  network (2)   pictures (8)  T Profile Name: T_Titillatus Owner/dom of: Tsquietone Created on: 1 Jul 2006 Last visit: 4 days ago Location: Boston Country: US (MA) Sex/gender: Male Yahoo messenger: T_Titillatus Y! Homepage: http://www.geociti... Age: 41 Hair colour: brown Eye colour: brown Profile type: Dominant / Owner / Master Sex/gender seeking: Female Ad title: Sensual Sadist Ad updated: 385 days ago Height: 5ft 6in;    Weight: 10st 5lb;    BMI: 23.2 Sensual Sadist A bit about me: I am a Dominant male in the greater Boston area, and I have been actively involved in the BDSM scene for the past 7 years. During that time, I have discovered a great deal about myself, my desires, and BDSM in general, but I realize that I have had but a glimpse of what is possible. Within the bounds of what I have experienced, some of my favorites and fetishes include: bondage (Shibari, suspension, predicament), power exchange, flogging, whipping, caning, eStim (violet wand & TENS), sensory deprivation, sensation play, teasing, orgasm control/training, and role play (just to name a few), but I am interested in expanding my repertoire and always open to trying new things as long as they are safe, sane and consensual. As the title of my profile suggests (and as those with whom I have played can attest), I can sometimes tend toward the sadistic end of the spectrum. Am I a true sadist? No, I don't think so, but I suppose it depends on your definition. To me, a true sadist is cruel, and only capable of deriving sexual gratification from the suffering of others -- better still if that suffering is devoid of pleasure. That's not the way I am wired, and it never will be. Simply causing another human being pain and suffering does not get me off. Pain is a sensation, like any other, but it is an undesirable one for most. However, for some it is just the opposite, they crave it, and derive satisfaction and pleasure from it. Sometimes the satisfaction is immediate, and springs from the alternation between pleasure and pain, with the two eventually melding into one exquisite sensation. At other times the pleasure and satisfaction are only evident in retrospect, in part deriving from a sense of accomplishment for having tolerated so much. In either case, the experience of the submissive is paramount, and part of what gratifies me is knowing that the experience was, on balance, a positive one. Please don't misunderstand and assume that pain is always involved when I play. Part of what I love about BDSM is the seemingly endless array of options and possibilities for erotic expression. There are times when all I want is to slowly, sweetly, and sensually explore my submissive, and I can spend hours doing nothing else. I can be just as content with a few lengths of rope and my imagination as I can be with the entire contents of my toybox at my disposal. Oh, and I love to make my submissive cum, the operative word being *make*. The orgasm is allowed if and when I choose, and it may be a single burst of pleasure, or a barrage of overstimulation to the point of tears. This profile was last updated on 24 Jan 11, 9:28 PM (Please read the cautions on About Personal Ads before responding to an advert.)