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TSR : Profiles : Sir_Aldric
| Profile: | Sir_Aldric |
| Created on: | 12 Mar 2007 |
| Last visit: | 4 days ago |
| Country: | US |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| Yahoo messenger: | SirAldric Y! |
| Age: | 53 |
| Hair colour: | dark grey |
| Eye colour: | blue |
| Profile type: | Dominant / Master / Owner |
Height: 6ft 4in; Weight: 14st; BMI: 23.7
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Note: it seems I have a vacancy for a slave. In case you are interested read the 'Vacancy' part underneath.
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I know most women here are looking for an unattached man, so in order to prevent you wasting your time: I'm happy vanilla married to a sweet woman. In case you want to continue reading, be warned: this is by far the longest Master profile in this community..
In general I'm always glad to help online, listen to what is bothering you or give some (personal) advise (for what it's worth..). Always feel free to message me; there should be no hurdle if you would like to approach me.
Underneath some stuff I copied & pasted from my own posts so far. Some of the 'wiser' (some might say 'less stupid'  ) personal visions.
The type of slave I'm looking for:
Just like a coin a slave should have two sides: the slave side and the vanilla/partner side. A slave should flip from one side to the other on my instruction, whenever, wherever, however.. No exception. If not, I'm not meant to be your Master.
On a slave side a slave should be obedient, respectful and polite. I prefer those who are that way by nature, behaviorism embedded in their gene's since there is a limit to what training can achieve on the long run. A 'strong willed slave' is a type of contradiction I personally don't like, just like black snow; something is basically wrong from the start..
On the vanilla/partner side a slave still has to be respectful and polite. I won't settle for less. I'm already smart, strong, assertive and powerful for the two of us, so my slave doesn't need to be. However I would not mind at all (and to be precise: I would even prefer) that she indeed would have all those extra qualifications as long as she meets the basic above mentioned requirements. Her extras should never stand in the way of the M/s relation itself because then again something is basically wrong from the start.
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What a Master is all about:
1. A Master should be humble enough to realize that he should be worthy of having a slave.
2. A Master should realize that within a relation the slave is of equal importance as he is.
3. A Master should realize that it will be his responsibility to keep the M/s relation in balance.
4. A Master should realize that he will be responsible of the physical and mental well-being of his slave.
5. A Master should realize that he MUST guide, control, teach his slave.
6. A Master should realize that he must earn the respect of his slave. Being Master is hard work; it is not about messing around.
7. A Master should realize that if he can not successfully control his own life, that chances of controlling his slave's live are close to zero.
8. A Master should never abuse his slave. Never. Abusing that what is under your personal protection degrades you from 'Master' to Loser. There are no excuses; not for a Master. Never.
If you can't do, can't meet that, you're not a Master in my eyes.
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Regarding the intelligence of a slave:
To me, slave's nature and personality are the cake; her intelligence is the icing on that cake. For me there can never be enough icing on the cake.. the more the better.. However, if the cake is sweet and tasty by itself I can do perfectly with little of no icing.
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About relations and happiness:
Whether Master or slave, you have the right to be happy, the right to lead a rewarding, fulfilling and meaningful life, you have the right to get a matching non-egoistic non-egocentric partner that sincerely cares about your personal well being. In M/s both partners exactly have these same identical rights. Especially in M/s it is Master's responsibility that slave's rights are met, if by whatever reason slave neglects to stand-up for her own rights.
Don't let anyone take away those rights from you. Never.
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About TSR itself:
As a community we are here to help and support others as best as we can. Sometimes in lively discussions we might forget what it is all about: being part of a magnificent community and making a small contribution towards it.
Enjoy it, participate on it, be the community in a wise, caring and positive way ..
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Something about me:
I guess I was born smart and wise, never bullied or got bullied, skipped my pubertal phase, always had a helicopter view for as long as I can remember, always got a full control of my own life, never made any stupid mistakes (ok.. hardly any.. ), guided & controlled other lives without realizing I was doing so; it just happened and I took it for normal. I always felt people were safe on my watch, because I feel responsible for what is happening around me. I'm a shepherd to sheep, who don't notice I softly guide them in this vanilla world. I have a lot of positive energy pushing me forward, making me successful with whatever I do and I've done a lot; I feel the earth tremble when I walk (ok..  I get a bit poetic here..) I made many decisions for many people and suddenly one day (no special trigger or whatever occurred) I realized: I'm a Master. A Master acting, thinking and behaving as a true Master in a vanilla world around me. A Master with a clear personal vision of what a Master should be and I live myself by those same personal standards. I don't feel special being a Master; it is just how I was born, what I am, the genetic stuff I'm made off I guess, so no big deal. Not even Freud himself would find the slightest trace of a submissive feeling in my body and mind.
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About respect:
1. A true Master should have a high respect for women in general.
2. A true Master should have a very high respect for unowned slaves and realize that his first step always should be to EARN the respect of said slave before doing anything else. Commanding unowned slaves out of the blue immediately proves you are NOT a Master.
3. A true Master should have an extremely high respect for owned slaves.
4. If a slave (owned or unowned) approaches a Master, with questions, asks for help, whatever, then a true Master should respectful be there for that slave, without wanting anything in return.
Everything is based upon respect, if you don't see and feel that, you're not a Master. Not in my eyes.
These are not guidelines and most certainly NOT kind requests; it is a MUST for a true Master. If as a Master you behave disrespectful, whether online or rl, you are not a Master to my opinion. You are a loser, just deceiving yourself and (vulnerable) slaves in your presentation as 'Master'.
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About the jealousy of a slave:
There are some background processes one needs to take into account when looking at something like jealousy within M/s:
1. Personally I have a clear and straight forward opinion regarding M/s relations: a Master is always responsible for anything that happens within or to that relation. That seems maybe an unfair burden to bear, but of all men a true Master should and must bear it. The other side of that same coin: a Master gets a lot in return, never underestimated to power of the submissive gift.
2. Jealousy is one of the strongest emotions, deeply embedded in one's personality. Telling people not to be jealous, 'training' or forcing them to get rid of it, is just fouling yourself. It can't be done that simple as Freud found out himself a long time ago. For any Master jealousy should be serious business; you don't mess around with jealousy, not while you as Master yourself are kept responsible for the M/s relation you started..
3. Making a commitment as Master is sacred; there are no excuses as Master for breaking your own commitments, not if you want to look in the mirror again.. Not if you want to look an other Master in the eye..
So back to jealousy, looking to it from the above perspective ..
If you as Master encounter a slave (rl, online or ldr), both are interested to start a long-term relation, but you get the impression that said slave is quite jealous (and it is your task as Master anyway to figure that out before going further..) then you as Master have to move carefully and watch your steps. If you want that slave, make a commitment not to involve other women, then you are bound to keep that commitment.
If you want that slave, but like to keep the option for other women open, then this has to be crystal clear from the start (your responsibility as Master that there is no misunderstanding).
As Master you DON'T start a relation, take the submissive honey first and blame her afterward for not being 'willing' to overcome her jealously feelings. Doing so would reflect bad on you as Master since you made the mess yourself, failed as Master from the start already, neglected the fact that you are responsible first and foremost, blamed the other and left it to the other to live further with that. That would be 'Master' unworthy behavior..
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About the Power of a Master:
In this world, on this Earth, a Master has the power to create a heaven or a hell for his slave. It is that simple; that is the impact of the power we are talking about.
When used in a positive way a slave will blossom up, reach levels she never could have imagined to reach, a state of unparalleled happiness, an ecstasy of love and deep respectful affection towards her Master, shedding tears of happiness on Master's feet while kneeled before him (sorry.. I'm in a poetic mood again ). Slaves can not get closer to a heaven on Earth then at the feet of a true positive Master.
When used in a negative way (intentionally or unintentionally due to lack of insight or whatever) the damage towards a slave can be unparalleled high as well. All is in balance: the chance of an extreme high is outbalanced by same chance of an extreme low..
That all is quite some responsibility to bear for a Master, but of all men, a Master should bear that responsibility. If you as Master take that power seriously, use it wisely, then in return you will get more than any other vanilla man could ever get.
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About being a true slave:
The basics of any action of a slave should be a confirmation (towards herself & others) of the simple fact that she truly is and wants to be a slave. That background is more important then some realize. You can't say "I'm a slave", just get involved in some kinky sex and/or mess around a bit. Being a true slave comes from a deep knowledge within that you are a slave, that you are determined to behave like one and that you want the outside world (community) to recognize you as such.
Meaning: anything should be done from a humble, submissive awareness of being slave. Be polite, patient and above all respectful towards your Master and to any Master in general. A true slave has a very high willingness to please her Master; that should be reflected in anything you do and think.
There are some tricks to learn, but I don't find those tricks that meaningful. To me it is far more important that in her own words, her own presentation, her own actions, she shows to me that she truly is a slave in body, mind and soul.
In return as Master I would give my slave (or any slave who approaches me in above described way) the respect she deserves to get as a true slave.
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My Zodiac sign (for those interested..):
I'm Gemini. My Ascendant is Gemini as well. So there is four of us; we always win..
Some might argue that this explains the more-than-average ego & arrogance  . But anyway, I'm a pure Gemini; no discussion what/how I am.. Read the books and know the deepest parts of me..
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The above is a collection of personal reflections, opinions or visions coming from my own earlier posts.
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The stuff underneath is put here especially for the profile itself.
A Protector of slaves:
A female slave wrote me a memo stating that I gave her a snugly feeling of being warmly safe and protected. It made me think about my own above mentioned personal black holes. Looking inside I clearly see now that this indeed is one of my non-selfish motivations of why I'm here: giving female slaves that feeling of being understood, appreciated and warmly sheltered, even if they are not my slave nor linked to me in whatever other way. It just is the way I am as person, as Master: I'm a protector of slaves, not just for one, but for all.
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A Concilliari to Masters:
It is not always easy being a Master.. Where can you turn to as Master in case you start to doubt yourself? Well, for what it is worth, you can always ask my (second)opinion (and I won't even tell your slave you did ). I'm the lubricant, reducing the friction between the gears, preventing the system to get stuck.. (wow, that is soo deep..  )
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Vacancy for a slave:
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In order of importance.
1. As stated above I'm already in a real life vanilla relationship , so I will NEVER meet my slave in real life. The maximum I can do is share a platonic long distance love limited to a pure mental level with my slave. Reason for this: I'm a nice vanilla guy as well as a true Master so I stick a life time to the real life commitments I made. My platonic slave makes me complete, my missing part..
2. Some people behave on-line like idiots, some lie, some misbehave unseen in the dark. Not me. I'm absolutely honest and reliable, even on-line. I never lie and expect the same from my slave. I'm a highly intelligent guy, you can't fool me. If I detect dishonesty it is over.
3. Never ever tell me what you think I like to hear. The biggest mistake to make as my slave; it is an insult towards me. Again, I will detect that sooner or later, get disappointed and then it's over. Always give me a true honest answer, even if it might be painful for you or me. Honesty & sincerity will save you and earn my respect.
4. Motivation. As Master I'll give my slave a very high priority in my life. I'll be there for you, to guide you, teach you, control you. I'll make enough time daily available for you. I expect the same from you as slave. It is highly disappointing to notice that the groceries have a higher priority than your Master. If you don't have the means or time available to contact me, then I can't be your Master. I expect commitment. I can do that, so should you..
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Thanks for reading. Sorry I need so many words (I know.. Gurus in general are quite boring..) In case you might have questions, just ask.
Take care,
Sir Aldric
BTW 1: If people want to copy & paste from whatever I wrote here, to be (re)used in their own profile or post, no problem whatsoever, although it would be appreciated if I was informed on beforehand and did not stumble over it myself..
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BTW 2: who are all these people watching me?? Their silent shadows seem to glide, hidden in darkness, over my naked profile. Like ghosts they come and disappear leaving my increased profile counter as the only proof of their existence. Shadows are watching me.. What did they seek? What did they hope to find in my profile? Did I disappoint them or were their hopes too high? Is something wrong with me? Am I too tall, too wise, too married?? The Observer will never know, will always wonder. Lost souls like dust in the wind, they came, saw and drifted back into the safe darkness of the internet leaving the Observer confused behind. He knows they were there, he just couldn't observe them and figure out why.. what..
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