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TSR : Profiles : Ms_Valentine
| Profile Name: | Ms_Valentine |
| Created on: | 7 May 2008 |
| Last visit: | 70 days ago |
| Location: | Norfolk |
| Country: | UK |
| Sex/gender: | Female |
| Profile type: | Dominant / Owner / Master |
Height: 5ft 7in
Dominant and partner to and living with paulss in full time D/s relationship for nine years in all. I am not looking to play with, own or be in any relationship with any but paul.
I have been on IC, SD and now here since 2002 (albeit under a different profile name) and have been a lifestyle as well as professional dominant (although this profile is nothing to do with professional domination). I have been active for about fourteen years on the bdsm scene in the UK.
I respect that everyone on here has the right to engage in or seek the relationship of their choice.
My choice is D/s, chosen by me above all the other options available because it is right for me. I could be an owner if I wanted but I don't want to be.
There is no inherent hierarchy of relationships not here or anywhere. Only people make judgements about what others do.Relationships, especially those that last a long while, tell their own story. We chose what suits us, having thought carefully about what the differences are and mean.
Philosophically, I cannot be an owner as I cannot base my relationship on a conceptual understanding which cannot be demonstrated externally. Submission and obedience can be demonstrated physically, they can be shown to exist outside of my or my sub's mind. Ownership can be spoken of and felt, but somewhat like religion, not seen or proved. The proof is the belief and I do not believe in the concept, so I cannot be an owner.
D/s is a practical, working model of the same stuff which may exist in an M/s relationship bar the ownership.
Paul is not a possession of mine, nor do I own him. I have in my power what he gives me, time, effort, obedience, submission, love and friendship. He gives me those as an equally valued human being within an unequal relationship. That is his choice, to submit, stay with him, love and obey me. I cannot force him to stay nor do I want this, he stays because his choice is to stay. I feel more powerful that way as each day he is with me, I know why he is with me and I have all the validation I require.
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