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TSR : Profiles : Miss_Astere
| Profile Name: | Miss_Astere |
| Created on: | 3 May 2010 |
| Last visit: | 5 hours ago |
| Country: | US |
| Sex/gender: | Female |
| Age: | 32 |
| Profile type: | Neither dom nor sub |
"We don't wear masks to avoid the real life we see and touch. We wear masks to help us contact an equally real world, one much harder to perceive. We aren't hiding our true faces with lies; we are attacking the lies which claim that our visible faces are the only true ones."
"Dominance is active, alive. It is a never ending series of delicious games, it is a serious and constant dedication to the exchange of power, it is, at its core, taking...not accepting."
"It is great to play with a few toys and some dirty words. If that's all you want, wonderful! Enjoy! But if you want to tap into a sheer kinetic vein of power, remember that it can be done."
"Ours is a dark art. It is never really “safe”. It has too much power, strikes at places too deep inside us. When we enter that darker place, I need to know that you are with me. I want to hear, as well as see, a confirmation that you are paying attention; that you are focused, directed, aware of what and where we are. I need to know that you are conscious of my communications, verbal or otherwise......
...Awareness is quintessential. If I need to stop you, change what you are doing, alter a moment—I want to know that I can do so, NOW. I need to know that, no matter how deeply you trance, you are still following me. I need to know that you are mine. "
"D/s, like all arts, comes not from the body, but from inner places. The outside world mistakes traditional trappings of our work—leather, manacles, kneeling, commands — for the work itself. But you, and I, we know better. Chains can be powerful, but in the end, they're only decorations. Putting them on won't make you a slave. Taking them off won't release you from what you are."
"It's not simply a question of doing what I've told you. It's a matter of taking our agreement to heart. You're faced with a setback. How do you react? You have an opportunity. What do you make of it?"
"Have you brought me a will? Can I ask you to do things that are difficult and challenging, and expect them to be done? Have you come to enhance my strength and knowledge and life, or to drain those things from me? If we are emotionally joined, can you comfort me if I am hurt or afraid? Or do you demand from me a constant appearance of invulnerability, some myth that because I'm your dominant, I'm infallible? Have you brought me a mind, the ability to make choices and judge circumstances? If I require a service from you, are you helpless if I do not provide every step? ..... If I want to know more of your thoughts, your feelings, your reactions, are you prepared to analyze them for me? If I do something stupid, will you be able to correct me? If I suggest something unwise, might you be able to point it out to me? Have you come to be my partner? Our partnership may take a thousand forms, but everything we create is a mutual process. What skills do you bring? What knowledge? What are you prepared to teach me? Are you prepared to offer me some patience, allow me some of the imperfections of a human being? Have you come here with only your fantasies about what I will do with you? Or have you come for the much more difficult, far more powerful realities of what you and I could be?"
From "Give", by Jeff Mach This profile was last updated on 26 Feb 12, 7:12 PM
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