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TSR : Profiles : GerardVanDam
| Profile Name: | GerardVanDam |
| Created on: | 23 Apr 2008 |
| Last visit: | 24 hours ago |
| Country: | NL |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| Email: | ZU2101@hotmail.com |
| MSN ID: | zu2101@hotmail.com |
| Age: | 56 |
| Hair colour: | brown grey |
| Eye colour: | brown |
| Profile type: | Dominant / Owner / Master |
Height: 5ft 9in; Weight: 13st 8lb; BMI: 27.8
**Update dec 3 2010. I added more lines. See below.
*Update may 23 2010*. I did not change my text, but I added a few lines. See below.
I am learning.
Only recently (2007) I came to understand the strange things that happened in my relationships in the early eighties. My girls were insatiable sex addicts. One of them even had to take hormones (depoprovera) to dampen her libido. All three sometimes seemed to want to be just taken by me, just be fucked and nothing more.
Essentially they were slaves of their own sexdrive.
In those days the idea of one person in a relationship being "Master" and the other being "slave" seemed weird to me (having been brought up in the sixties).
I never used whips or ropes or any other typically BDSM stuff. I didn't even raise my voice!
Until the present day I do not fully know how I became "the man with two nymphomaniac girlfriends".
Friends suggest I somehow "understand" women. I doubt this. After all, all three were young. Also: three is only a very small sample.
There certainly was a D/s aspect, notwithstanding the fact that they and I did not want any Daddy/daughter (with the last two D/d was discussed).
Also, I never wanted to be a "leader". Indeed I hated it! But nevertheless I became one. I just took the lead whenever necessary.
Generally my girls did what I wanted them to do, (and so did many of my friends).
Nowadays, a quarter of a century later, I see power struggle in many so-called vanilla relationships. Some develop a D/s or even M/s equilibrium.
I would like to meet people, s or D, to exchange ideas, preferably Real Life.
Especially I would like to talk with women who at some point in their lives had enormous libidos. Please understand that time is probably NOT right for me to start new relationships (*read update below). I still am in a learning stage (Do we ever stop learning?).
Email: zu2101@hotmail.com
*update may 23 2010*
It took three years, but time IS right, now. No two women, vanilla or not, are the same. So the first contacts should be aimed at finding out how your personality developed into the sub/slave you are. Your age is not important! Your wishes are!
**update dec 3 2010**
After my last update much has happened. I now have a growing "family". The members are from five countries, but most are from the Netherlands and the UK. We plan to live together in a year or so. Before that there will be groups of two, three or four. We don't know who will stay. If you are interested, send a memo. This profile was last updated on 21 Nov 11, 8:31 PM
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