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	TSR : Listings : Books Master/slave and O&P Books The Slave Register publishes this list of non-fiction books on Master/slave and O&P topics, sorted according to Amazon.com sales, with accompanying comments by Amazon's users. For a general BDSM bestseller list, please see BDSM Book News which includes books on physical techniques and some M/s fiction. 1. The Control Book by Peter Masters The Control Book is about the fine art of taking control of your partner. It's about the processes involved, about taking control, using control, about ensuring that you have control, and-importantly-about giving control back once you are done with it. The book discusses how this works-the psychology of it-and looks at what can go right, and at what can go wrong and how to fix it. It considers the role of authority in the equation, and looks at how to manage the control you have over someone so that it is both effective and rewarding for you both. I believe that a very ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £10.83   Amazon FR: €13.99    Amazon DE: €13.79  2. The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella This book examines various aspects of erotic dominance including SM, safety, sex, erotic power, techniques, and much more. Even if your primary interest is erotic submission rather than dominance, this book will give you insights that will help you lead you to a more fufilling sexuality. The author speaks in a clear, frank, and nonjudgemental way to anyone with an interest in the erotic dominant/submissive dynamic.  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.16    Amazon DE: €15.20  3. Becoming a Slave by Jack Rinella Becoming a Slave is an authoritative, and well-documented book on the process of finding and submitting to a dominant. Beginning with a description of terms and the characteristics to be found in a master and in a slave, the book continues with how one realizes and understands their own desire to submit and serve, proceeds to the process of advertising, searching, meeting, and interviewing prospective masters, and ends with a great deal of practical advice on submitting, serving, and satisfying a dominant in a healthy and practical way.  Amazon US: $21.95   Amazon UK: £14.02   Amazon FR: €18.11    Amazon DE: €17.86  4. Protocols: A Variety of Views: Power Exchange Books' Resource Series by Robert Rubel PhD Not all Families use protocols. Those that do use protocols in their relationship range from using only a few protocols to having an extensive Protocol Manual written out for the slave’s use. Those who use common Leather protocols may use them slightly differently, based on the part of the country in which they live. One often hears about “East Coast versus West Coast” styles of protocols. Also, many Masters or Doms make up their own protocols as befits that particular relationship. All this is good. This issue contains articles from Masters and slaves that represent divergent views. ...  Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €10.99    Amazon DE: €8.10  5. Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice (M/s Studies Books) by Robert J Rubel PhD This book is for Masters. This book is for established Masters who are curious about what someone could possibly write on the subject they know so well. This book is also for those relatively new to the BDSM Lifestyle who are finding themselves called to Mastery.  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €16.23  6. Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy Combines Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual and Training With Miss Abernathy in one deluxe volume for the first time. In 1996, Christina Abernathy condensed her considerable wisdom and experience on the topic of consensual erotic owner/slave relationships into her first slim, elegant little manual; Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual. In 1998, in response to consumer demand, she laid out a detailed program for training the erotic slave in various aspects of service, obedience and proper values, Training With Miss Abernathy. These two books have become essential ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.16    Amazon DE: €12.98  7. SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude--Principles, Skills and Tools by Guy Baldwin Guy Baldwin, author of Ties That Bind, joins forces with a grateful slave to produce this gripping and personal account on the subject of consenual slavery. Philosophical and intense, Slavercraft dares to delve beneath the surface of D/s relationships and gives us an intimate and revealing view from a rare perspective- that of a slave. The authors examine the psychology and spirituality behind the Master/ slave dynamic, and the result is a book that is resourceful, thought provoking and sexually charged. Beautifully written and intriguing, Slavecraft is sure to leave an impact.  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.16    Amazon DE: €15.20  8. Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual by Christina Abernathy Is book explains the reality of D/S in a clear start-forward way, and by passes all the fluff; it's not about the sex it's about the experience. A must read for anyone interested in D/S, it explained the why of problems that I have seen in several D/S relationships (mine and others). Have I said enough, "GET THIS BOOK" if your interested in having a winning experience as a Dom or a Slave!!!!  Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €10.69    Amazon DE: €10.53  9. Master Nage's Guide to Training Consensual Slaves by Master Nage An entertaining and informative look at Dominance and submission, from finding the right slave to keeping a collar around her neck. If you think it doesn't take work to keep a slave, you've never tried it. Learn from an experienced Master who lives the lifestyle--from both his triumphs and his mistakes. You'll never look at Dominance and submission the same way again. Master Nage is a real life Master, practicing D/s (Dominance/submission) since 1992. He moved to Hobart Tasmania in 2003 to be with his slave dana, who he subsequently married. Master Nage writes full time. He writes erotica, ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £14.95   Amazon FR: €12.34    Amazon DE: €12.16  10. Training with Miss Abernathy: A Workbook for Erotic Slaves and Their Owners by Christina Abernathy I finally got my hands on a copy of this book. It was well worth the wait. I think it has some very good exercises in it for learning to notice the small details in pleasing your Master. It was an easy read, and not a book that I will be willing to part with anytime soon if ever. It is written in a Mistress tone and if you can overcome that you will be able to enjoy this book. I had hoped it would cover more of the discipline aspects in training slaves but it is still a great book.  Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.51    Amazon DE: €11.35  11. The Compleat Slave: Creating and Living an Erotic Dominant/Submissive Lifestyle by Jack Rinella In this highly anticipated followup to The Master's Manual, author jack Rinella continues his in-depth exploration and discussion of Dominant/submissive relationships with his latest book, The Compleat Slave. This informative overview of the leather scene features Rinella's guidelines, tips, and personal experiences in creating safe and sane Master/slave relationships. Whether you are a novice or an experienced Master or slave, this insightful and forthright volume will prove to be a great read and a valuable reference guide.  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.16    Amazon DE: €12.98  12. Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny The world of consenting Master/slave relationships often seems murky and mysterious from an outsider's perspective, and there are few models for those who are tentatively venturing into it. When it's not just a fantasy any more, reality often turns out to be so different from fantasy that would-be owners and slaves don't know how to make it work in a sustainable way. This book is as far from fantasy as it gets. Written by a real-life Master/slave couple who counsel people in power-dynamic relationships, Dear Raven and Joshua answers real questions about real problems encountered in daily ...  Amazon US: $25.00   Amazon UK: £18.95   Amazon FR: €20.63    Amazon DE: €20.34  13. Protocols: Handbook for the female slave by Robert J. Rubel This book is a guide prepared for a slave to enable her to express her love for her Master through her actions. In this case, her actions include ways of standing, sitting and speaking (ways of being) as well as ways of preparing things to please her Master in a consensual "Master/slave" relationship. The book covers formal Leather protocols as well as a range of personal rituals, such as formal dinner service. As much as anthing else, this is a book of etiquette and service within the Leather-BDSM culture.  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €16.23  14. Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 (M/s Series) by Robert Rubel PhD Make your communication tool kit as complete as your toy bag: - Tips for getting on the same page with your partner - Methods of communicating during emotional upsets - Adding skills for clear and consistent communication - Connecting better with your partner - Exploring how you think, in order to learn how you communicate - Tools for communicating more smoothly with your slave or Master This book covers techniques from many disciplines and many communication theorists to produce a practical work, jammed with tips and techniques for improving communication and problem resolution ...  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £15.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €16.23  15. Manual Creation: Defining the Structure of an M/s Household by Machele Kindle Master Fire has written an intimate and revealing look into her personal life as a Master. She has deliciously chronicled her thoughts and actions on Mastery and consensual slavery. Every aspect of slave management and life is addressed; from finances to protocols.  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €16.23  16. To Love, to Obey, to Serve: Diary of an Old Guard Slave by V. M. Johnson As an Old Guard submissive, I was amazed by Vi Johnson's diary. I, too, am expected to keep a journal but the depth of mine does not compare to hers. Expectations differ by Dominant. While my Dominant does not expect me to construct a dungeon in Her home and would absolutely kill me if I were to turn to drugs, She does expect me to change in the ways She considers to be growth. This isn't easy but, after reading this book, I now appreciate how much my Dominant cares. I highly recommend this book to any submissive who thinks there's more to BDSM but doesn't know where to look.  Amazon US: $17.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €14.81    Amazon DE: €17.73  17. Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave: Theory and Practice by Robert J Rubel PhD While recognizing that every Master creates individualized protocols for a slave, this book is an example of a real protocol manual in a real-life situation.  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €16.23  18. Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein ASK THE MAN WHO OWNS HIM is the first book to present, in their own words, the real lives of long-term gay Master/slave couples and families. Sixteen slave­owners and their properties around the U.S. and in Canada welcomed the authors into their homes and spoke candidly about how each relationship started, how it evolved to meet the challenges of living in conventional society, and how it works today. All of these bonds have lasted for at least three years - some for well over a dozen years. These relationships are different from the Master/slave stereotypes of erotic fiction. They're also ...  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £12.95   Amazon FR: €16.46    Amazon DE: €16.23  19. Power Exchange Books: The Art of Slavery by Robert Rubel Another in the Power Exchange Book Series  Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £7.99   Amazon FR: €10.99    Amazon DE: €8.10  20. The Control Book by Peter Masters In most, if not all, of BDSM activities there is at least some aspect of control by one partner over the other. That, notes author Peter Masters, is the heart of this book. In spite of that reality, there is little discussion among BDSM players about control and almost no instruction as to its assertion or exercise. The Control Book, therefore, is unique in its approach as a robust guide to understanding, gaining, exercising, maintaining, and using safe, sane, and consensual control over another or experiencing it as a willful submissive. Masters quote step-by-step approach has both ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £9.55   Amazon FR: €12.34    Amazon DE: €12.16  21. The Path of Service: Guideposts for Excellence (S/M Tech Educational) by Christina "slavette" Parker This 8 1/2" X 11" spiral bound book is for the use of slaves who wish to perfect their life by daily, weekly and monthly written exercises. The assignments are thoughtful and provoking and lead the novice into a higher understanding of the slave culture.  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €16.46    Amazon DE: €16.23  22. Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker This book is for the use of slaves who wish to perfect their life by daily, weekly and monthly written exercises. The assignments are thoughtful and provoking and lead the novice into a higher understanding of the slave culture. This is a revised and expanded second edition of Parker's "The Path of Service".  Amazon US: $17.00  If you'd like to suggest any non-fiction books on Master/slave or O&P topics which are not on this list, please email admin AT slaveregister.com